Tuesday, December 31, 2013

One Last Time



One Last Time


Let me give it to you one last time
I promise not to make you lose your mind
I got that good you know you'll miss
Don't fight it boy you no I'm hard to resist



Let me climb on top of you and do my thang
Boy you know I drive you insane
One is not enough for me


I want to reach the mountain top not 1, 2 but I need 3
Its our last time I'm putting you to the test
One thing you can say is you had the best
It will be very little kissing cuddling or hugging
Im beast in bed its time for some serious loving


Now the deed is done and I've met my need
I pat myself on the back get your things its time for you to leave
Hold on to those memories keep them on your mind
Because there is no coming back that was the last time
©2011 Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved
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@MSKAYES

©2011 Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved

Opened up



Opened up 



I opened up and let you in 

You were all over the place 

Unsure of how you felt yea it best we remain friends 

I know what it is I want 

You on the other hand really don't 

I don't have time to wait for you to figure it out 

Because if I was the ONE you would know it without a shadow of doubt 

When a grown man meets his other half 

He is going to do everything in his power to make it last 

It's seems as if you have some other options going on 

I'm not a priority so it's best I get the hell on 

When you run across you future you will no 

That's when your actions and words will align for show 



It’s over and that’s a fact 

I’m moving forward and not looking back 

We had our good days and bad ones too 

As I walk away from you and this situation I want you to know I’m not mad at you 

But yes we are through 

We are ending on good terms relationship wise 

I’ve let that burn 



For second not even a minute you had me thinking I was weak 

Up crying losing sleep 

I was into you and my feelings really deep 

I had to regroup now I’m back on my feet 

I’m doing Me Myself and I and its hell a sweet 

I know my worth I’m a lady that don’t have to and will not compete 

Im not going to argue cuss fight or tell you to go to hell 

I know you know that scene so very well 

Instead I’m going to take a deep breath walk away and just exhale 

2013© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved
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Monday, December 23, 2013

Being Single




Being Single


Being single now what does that really mean

For some it means not settling preparing their self for their King/Queen

Not being a boo thang cut buddy jump off or even a fling

As you start to mature you want to know what your mate has to the table to bring

Sex is a part of relationship but not the main course

With that being said it’s a choice

If you’re not putting in Socially Spiritually Emotionally Mentally Financially 

Then why do they need to entertain you physically

They’re already single doing it on their own

If you’re not coming to add uplift teach and build a future then leave them alone

Single is plural meaning only one

When entering their life you must be ready to commit and work towards long term

Being Single gives you a chance to work on you

Take that time to make yourself happy love yourself all the way through

This is the preparation stage for you to get you together

What this is doing is preparing you for the next Level

No one wants to be alone

Yet no one wants to keep choosing the ones that’s all wrong

Now you say you want to settle down and come out the streets

Then it’s time for you to practice what you preach

Being single they don’t want to hear a lot of words

You can’t tell them anything they hadn’t already heard

Your words and actions must align

If they don’t trust and believe they will not be wasting their time..

If you’ve been hurt time and time again

You need to take some time and let your heart mend

If you’re not ready to give 100% to your mate

You need to sit down some where you’re not ready to date

There is no reason he/she should have to wait

Being single is when you take the time to heal and clear foolishness off your plate

When those painful memories start to erase

That’s when you know you’re at a good place

Being single is learning not everyone is out to hurt you

Let go forgive and the release the ones that have so you can move on to

Don’t miss out on your future holding on to your past

Bringing the old into the new that will surely make you’ll end fast

Being single they’re seeking something and someone that will last

And not one thats just in search for a piece of ASS…

2013© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved

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@MSKAYES


Tuesday, December 10, 2013

I'm A Hustler!!!

I'm A Hustler....



I'm a hustler through and through
I'm not the type to sit around and wait on a man to do
I go hard for everything GOD, Business, Family, Relationship and Friends just to name a few
I'm a real woman but I see you don't have a clue
You show me you got me I got you too
It's all about loyalty I thought you knew
I'm going to keep it 100 at all times
247/365 grinding is always on my mind
If you don't ask questions nothing is said
I like to eat well and we all know a closed mouth don't get feed
I don't work a 9 to 5 so I have to go out and get mines
Everyone has a different kind of hustle but doing wrong and crime
I'm sorry I already experience Jail I'm not out here trying to catch a new case nor do time
You get mad cause I get it how I live
Are you serious and you're for real
I'm a required taste and that's ok
A weak man can't handle me at the end of the day
Blunt Strong Will and Independent
Failure is not a option I got to get it
I don't come with a manual
Sometimes I'm hard to handle
If you fall off I need to have your back
If I didn't hustle and grind like I do how am I going to do that
I'm not in the streets trying to open my legs
I'm trying to eat well and get up my bread
I don't have time to chase no damn man
I have goals I'm trying to accomplish I have a plan
If your for me and a team player it will show
Come on now I just act like this sometimes I'm far from being slow
I'm not a good girl I've been through some things
That just means to the table I have a little more wisdom and knowledge to bring
I'm a hustler
There is nothing I hadn't seen
I'm going to get it by all means
I don't like being In the lime light
I like staying behind the scene
I don't have free time to do free things
I'm a hustler no grind no groceries I love to eat well do you know what I mean...

2013© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved


Monday, December 9, 2013

Coming 2014 I'm Not Built to Break!!!!!


Snippet: I'M NOT BUILT TO BREAK



I'm not built to break

I have my grass cut low so I can see the snakes
Trials coming at me in every directions
This is just a test I'm awaiting my blessing
Speaking everything I want and need into existence
Lord you have my attention I'm sitting still
I promise I'm listening


I'm not built to break
Please remove those people out of my life that are fake
For lord you know I've had enough pain and heartbreak
The Devil is throwing everything at me to try and take me out
He will not win I'm going to praise you God scream and shout
Lord I know you have this all worked out


I'm not built to break
Lord you said in you word all I had to do was ask trust and believe then I shall receive
I don't want to ask anyone but you to do nothing for me
I'm asking you to put the right people in my path please
You know the end of my story
To you my lord I give all the praise and glory
2013© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved




Saturday, November 16, 2013

I know what Pain is.....





I Know What Pain Is


I know what pain is do you? Some of you have never experience such... You've always had someone to bail you out and be there.. A lot of the things I have endured a lot of you couldn't have handled. You would have thrown in the towel a long time ago... Someone asked me why are you so strong? Why do you seem unattached and unemotional... Well at this point in my life people have to show me not tell me what they are about or going to do. Their words and actions have to align or I just don't take them serious, nor do I put too much thought or time into it...


Life lesson have taught me to be strong and keep my guard up.. What's funny to me is when people try to hurt me. Save that energy and time. Ive already experienced the worst kind of pain. While your trying to prey on me I'm praying for you.... this is not my first rodeo you can't run that with me.. Sometimes yes I over analyze things. When people try and hurt me I smile at them... The pain I have already endured will last me a life time. Nothing someone tries to do to me, I do mean nothing can top that.. So miss me with all that. I know what real pain feels like. I got over that.. So anything else doesn't even measure up. You can keep that..



I've never been a dummy I know what’s going on before you even say it.. A lot of times I just don't say nothing..

I’m putting all my ducks in a row.. See a person will lose emotions and become unattached before that actual say something or address the issue.

Let alone walk away and leave you wondering what happen. That’s why I believe in treating people how I want to be treated. What goes around comes back around.


I had to learn the hard way everyone is not for me and everyone don’t have my best interest at heart.. Yet that’motivates me to go out and get what I want, Succeed at what I’m trying to do. When I pray I pray that GOD will put the right people in my path to take me higher and remove the ones that don’t mean me any good..

Just because I don’t address everything don’t mean I’m not paying attention.. What’s understood doesn’t have to be explained. I pay attention to everything.. So please never underestimate me!!!!! Built in a small frame my motto’s stay the same. Upfront and blunt a woman who will Speak her mind. I dont have time to waste your time nor mines. .

I've been Homeless, car less, motherless, fatherless hadn't eaten in days.. Walked up and down the streets wondering where I would stay. In the mist of it all I still gave God the praise.
Yet I still keep going.... So you see for me FAILURE IS NOT A OPTION... I HAVE TO KEEP GRINDING.. My greatest assets are those things I've endured already.... At the end of pain is success.... I can't feel a lot of pain.. I've already been alone, being down and out. It’s not a lot of hurt at this point I can feel.. I have felt so much... already which has only made me stronger. You don't have to understand me I understand that God has a purpose for my life and that's what I'm hungry for it...

I can't quit it’s just not in me. I have been through far too much... to give up now.. I look at when I was down to nothing... My phone didn't ring. I couldn't get a ride to the store yet a ride to go hang out with so call friends.. The excuse you live to far I don't want to drive all the way out there and so on and so on.. I just smiled.. I use to hear so many times from folks….. I don't worry about you I know you will be ok you’re a hustler... LOL well I need someone to worry, someone to show me they care.. I’ve been doing it for so long on my own because I thought that's what I was supposed to do.. I get so sick and tired of people only acknowledging me when everything is alright.. Where are you when things are not alright.. See things and situations have just taught me a lot about myself and people... Yet I don't judge you I just keep going.. People make time for things and people they want to do.

Yeah some days it hurt for me to have these feeling that I’m in this world all by myself.. Truth of the matter I’m not.. God sometimes have to remove people so that when you get back where he wants you. You can give him all the glory. So don’t think you’re ever alone.. What we can’t see is God moving on our behalf. His timing his perfect will for our life.. All we need to do is sit down and be still.. I know of all people that is not an easy task. I wonder if any of you know what that feels like or have ever had those feeling that you’re all alone. It seems like everyone has turned their back on you because you’re going through a test right now.. I’m here to tell you it’s ONLY a TEST… When God wants all of your attention he will strip you from everything so that you can’t do anything but call and depend on him. You think he is punishing you… When he is actually protecting you..

I shouldn't be the only one reaching out to family and so called friends... Yet it seems as if I don't then we really want talk. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, don’t wait till it’s too late to tell love ones and close friends you love them. Check on them, be a blessing to someone. You never know what one is going through

One thing I can say every life lesson I've applied, I just refuse to keep repeating test.. I carry so much that at times my mind gets overloaded. So these things are the things that push me to keep going.... When you’re down and out..... that’s when you can tell who is real and who is not. Don't just call me when you want to kick it, or when you want to gossip.... I don't have the time or energy for that.. I'm at a new place in my life and it feels so good. I've kicked enough to last me a life time.. Now I'm building my empire... So you wonder why I’m so hard and so strong...
LIFE LESSONS...

I will be successful I want it just as bad as the air I breathe... There is no turning back or stopping me now. I thank all of the ones that mistreated me, told me NO didn't want to give me a ride, pick me up, left me stranded, didn't call unless they needed something. used me abused me and the list goes on.....Closing out the old walking into my Destiny.... Forgiving everything and everyone that has tried to hurt and mistreat me knowingly and unknowingly
~ Ms.K.Simpson~

Friday, November 15, 2013

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Snippet... from Real Talk..
My Phone
Let me put you on blast
I promise not to take you fast
You're the one calling my phone
Telling me I need to leave your MAN of 10 years alone
Do you see how this is about to go terribly wrong?
My first thought was how did you get my number?
You had to go through his phone
I'm laughing as I listen to you tell me
You all been Together for 10 years and got 2 children
You sleep with him
Every night at his place where you call home
I'm still trying to process this you got all this going
on Yet you’re on the other end of MY PHONE!!!
2011© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved

Snippet: from God Gave Me This Talent..

A New Christian
I’m a new Christian that’s alright
I've made the switch The devil is trying to turn me back with all his might
I've never been one to back down from a fight
I have the right man representing me now so I know I will be alright
Making the switch is not an easy task
I get a joyous feeling just knowing
God will supply all my needs, all I have to do is ask
So who are you to judge me when
God as already forgiving me for everything I've done in my past
2009© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Its Not that I'm afraid of commitment. I'm not committing to someone who won't commit to me

Just because the WRONG person didn't appreciate you, don't lose hope for the RIGHT person! You love being wined and dined until you realize the man doing it will never love you. He just wanted desert...If you're not giving it from your heart, you're better off keeping it. Being who God made you to be, won't fit everyone's taste buds.. Your a required taste and your not the flavor for everyone. Just the right one. Always remember even if someone picks up your cup because they like the way its decorated, They won't sip from it long... Because your a required taste and the wrong taste buds won't be able to handle it... Its not always that they aren't feeling you. Its not always that they don't have some type of care for you. Sometimes its' as simple as this..... You have standards that are higher than they're willing to step up to, so they'll settle for less before leaving their comfort zone. Let them GO, let them fly and be happy in knowing that your a come up.


I don't play disrespect, I don't play dishonesty, I don't play inconsideration and.... I don't play sticking around to see whether or not your wanna learn how to be any of the above. If it's not already present, I'm already a thing of the past. If we happen to meet again in the future and it's there, we'll see where it takes us. As for know...... I'm gonna stand on what I won't settle for less than... Call it what you want... I call it standards and I'm to old and grown to play with anyone. Or allow someone to take me out of character.. I have a purpose and work to do. I'm not going to let anything or anyone stand in the way of that.. I"m truly about making my MARK and doing what GOD needs me to do.. Distractions I cant do


A woman will leave you emotionally long before she leaves you physically. You might still "see" her, but you will no longer have her! Women need constant attention, affirmation & validation. If she doesn't get if from you, she'll get it someplace else. A man will do anything to get you in bed. This attitude will change once he's already had you in bed! It pays to know your worth....Men value their time and their money. You'll know whether or not he's genuinely interested based on how he invests both in you..

If you paid full price & got half service you would complain. It's not "nagging" when a good woman won’t settle for a half-ass version of you......If you want a woman to stay, give her hope! If you want a woman to leave, give her doubt! Learn to accept people for who they are. Learn to reject them for that same reason.

Relationships work best when a couple is supportive of each others goals.. If your not her cheerleader and not supporting here dream and passion.. Its only a matter of time before she will be dismissing you.. If she feels she can't share those big moments of her accomplishment with you and your her man and she has to call the next... Well your pretty much out of there.. Turn down your worth for no one. A woman will tell you how to get her and how to keep her all you have to do is listen and pay attention. When she finds herself talking about the same thing everyday that y'all talked about at the beginning.. that's draining her and she feels one you wasn't listening or two you just don't give a damn....Pay attention, listen and most of all be support of what she is doing...Dust settles...people don't. Remember, you've got options. A single lady who doesn't make men her primary focus will always have options - A single lady who thirsts for men will always be single...Women know much more than they let on - she might let you think you're in control, but trust me your really not.. All women don't like flowers, but i'm one that does.... the fact you were thinking of her is the gesture she loves ... let her know with more than a text..She eventually outgrows her attraction to ass holes ... catch up, brother. An interested woman will be as obvious as she can without being blatant...please pay attention to the obvious. She's specific. She's particular. She's exact. Pay attention to her details or someone else will. 

Thursday, October 31, 2013

I'm Interested



I'm interested

I'm interested and that's a fact
I'm not in a rush
I want to make sure you’re that one that will have my back

I'm interested I'm not going to lie
I don't know how to chase a man even if I try

I'm interested but I’m not a fool
You have to have more to offer me then just your tool
I’m from the old school

In interested I'm ready to go on a permanent date
I'm not seeking one that's trying to just get my cake

I'm interested but you would need to get in my head
Get to know me before you try to get what's between my legs

I'm interested but coming to my home is something you just can't do
I'm not one of those women you can call and text all through the night
Then after you leave the clubs try to come through

I’m interested but I have to love me first
I'm a woman I don't need you to define me
I already know my worth
2012© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved


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I AM WHO I AM.......

REPEAT: I AM... WHO I AM. I am ME. I am courageous. I am fierce. I am excellence. I am love, peace and harmony. I am a GIFT to the world. I am committed to my self, my future, my love, my happiness and my joy. It can not be taken or stolen by anyone for any reason. I AM not perfect, but I accept my imperfections perfectly. I am NOT what people think, I am WHO I think I AM. I am a valuable woman. I am a phenomenal woman. I am a powerful woman. I am a deserving woman. I am a worthy woman. I am an extraordinary woman. God made me that way. Therefore, NO WEAPON formed against me shall prosper - not today, not tomorrow or the next day or the next year. I AM NOT a quitter, I AM NOT defeated, I AM NOT unworthy, I AM NOT confused, I AM NOT weak, I AM NOT depressed, I AM NOT unloved, I AM NOT doubt, I AM NOT fear, I AM NOT drama, I AM NOT negativity. I am BEING and BECOMING the greatest that ever lived. I AM who I AM. I am the woman in the mirror. I am a reflection of all that I AM and all that I dream to be. I AM ME - and ME is WHO I AM. I AM all that I chose to be. And today, I chose to be ME.

Monday, October 28, 2013

Real talk moment H**S Vs The Woman



If you want for a man to look deeper beyond the surface, you need to show deeper beyond the surface.. Your husband wants you to do the same thing strippers and porn stars do, just behind closed doors. ...(Write That Down)....Some women think just because their man is active in the church that he doesn't want a freak at home... You better get with the program...


If you're not doing a good job keeping your man /woman happy, you'll make it easier for the next woman/man to step in..You better take care of home...Sex sells! But you don't want a man to buy you, you want a man to invest in you...know your worth..

H**s are only winning if you consider taking it in every hole for money, gifts, and trips and zero love in return "winning"!!!!!Don't lose your man to a h**. You can do better than her, but will count for nothing if you aren't willing. She is always willing.. If you don't take care of him guess what someone out there is willing...What men find attractive in a h** is simple! She caters solely to his interest....Self Less Take Notes.....If your not doing what you need to be doing for your man you leave the doors wide open for the next one to come in..A h** will take good care of you in the bedroom. A lady who has substance will take good care of you everywhere! There is something about a h** that every man likes. If you don't learn what that is, you'll soon be sharing your man with one. H**s get everything in the world but love! Not Winning....There are many women who degrade themselves to no end, but still get the ring. Do you think h**s are winning? Why or Why not? Let me hear some of y'all thoughts...

Real Talk moments feel free to share your thoughts.. on this...

Leave the Past in the Past

Don't forget to lock the door behind you.......Your past should not be sitting in the front seat going into town with your future. Park that mess..Stop running away from what God has for you!!! Your past has nothing to do with what in store for you now.Your plan should mirror your vision......Align the both and follow the steps towards the door of reality.Think negative and your actions will follow!!!! Change your mood. Next Chapter starts today......Either you start new or you continue with the same old story. Your choice is vital to your future...There is a loud, powerful message in ones silence.....
We often say "This is the last time" Not realizing we have not truly pulled it up from the root. Make sure its completely removed from your life. That way you won't go back so easy Ms.K.Simpson

Mixed Signals

Never give off mixed signals to a woman. Either you're in to her, you're not or just wanting to get to know more about her. MOST women are not looking for quick love, just making sure that they're not being led on or just wasting time. When you find that “one stop shop” in a woman (that fears the lord, unconditional lover, submissive & brings out Gods best in you, you better put a ring on it & love her in covenant for the rest of your life. Men…. No matter if you find your PRECIOUS JEWEL at surface level gleaming, or stuck in the rummage of hurt & pain, it’s your job to aide in helping her to restore her PRICELESS worth to be the queen & help meet God has called her to be. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE...It'll Be A Sad Thing To Have Someone Like or Even Fall In Love With The Character You're Pretending To Be Rather Than The Person You Really Are. Just Be Yourself. If They Don't Want YOU for YOU then go be with someone who does! If you have to mute them on twitter, give them partial access to your Facebook & Google + page or assign distinct apps to monitor their calls or route them to voice mail, you probably shouldn't be dealing with them at all. Stop giving people PARTIAL access that shouldn't be having access at ALL

Monday, October 21, 2013

You asked me to be your lady

You asked me to be your lady

You asked me to be your lady
I’m not in a rush we are still learning each other daily
I’m not interested in skipping the friendship
To move on to the relationship
So you can get the sexship

See I’ve been there and done that
At this point in my life that’s just not where I’m at
You have to put in the work if this is where you want to be
Not just buy me things an try to sex me

 I got rid of my sugar daddies a long time a go
I’m sorry that’s just not how I flow

You have to put in the work
Otherwise I assure you your feeling will get hurt.

It’s more to me than my lips
If you’re not my MAN you can’t experience how I move my hips
I’m more than what is between my thighs
I know my worth and yes I have become very wise

I’ve been doing this thing on my own for a very long time
At this point in my life
What I require is establishing a friendship dating courting but most of all stimulating my mind
Don’t crowd my space
But yeah you must keep a smile on my face
Moving too fast will cause you to lose this race

I’m a strong independent woman that can hold her own
Not to mention yes I’m grown
I’m pretty set in my ways.
So yes it’s going to take a very patient man to deal with me as well as the good and bad days
The hardest part of a new relationship is the beginning
If you’re not willing to communicate and put in the work it will quickly come to an ending

2013© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

My Smile



My Smile

You look at my pictures and see a smile upon my face

If you really knew my story you would hug me with a warm embrace

I've been through so many ups and downs

It’s a wonder why I carry a smile and not a frown

My heart is heavy in so many ways

I know this is only a test, there will be brighter days

It seems I'm all alone and no one is there

Going through all this mess just don't seem fair

The Smile on my face covers the pain I have inside

I learned to humble myself, and not have so much pride

From being abused, misused, homeless and more

I Smile because I no God has so much more in store

I'm OK with telling you what I've been through

Maybe my story can help you too

If you're going through it, know you're not alone

Sometimes God takes us through it to make us strong.....
2010© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved








You're A Woman



You're A Woman

You're a woman that can hold her own

You've been through a lot which has made you strong

You’re a woman that won't give up without a fight

I must say that's one of the things I like

You’re a woman that keeps it all together

You intimidate people therefore the don't know how to get on your level

You're a woman that's God Fearing and keeps God First

People only have something to say about you when you’re at your worst

You're a woman that has changed her life around

They still throw your past in your face to try to bring you down

You're a woman that's sacrifice and gave up so much

You stood on your own and didn't need a crutch

You're a woman that has a story to tell

Your test and trials have made you excel

Your work doesn't go unnoticed

I admire that even when you’re going through it you keep Focus..

2010© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved

Speak up






People have their reasons for not wanting to be in your life. Respect that and let them go about their business. Weak minded men prey on weak minded women because a strong man knows that he needs a strong woman in his life. A messy woman isn't a woman at all. Especially one that purposely cause drama and stirs up mess. Sometimes the best way to keep peace is by keeping your thoughts to yourself. Everyone can't handle what's on your mind at the time. It's sad when you're  the problem and you don't know you're the problem. What you fail to address now will show up at your address and address you later. I ain't who I used to be because if I was, a lot of people would have been cussed out. THANK GOD I've changed. If there's a disagreement, don't wait a few days and call like there never was a problem. U can't leave the past alone until u deal with it. One way to spot the enemy at work is when the people who once supported you now reject you. It happened to Jesus, so don't be discouraged.

Love doesn't come with a manual that's why you have to be in love to understand it. It takes no time to fall in love but it take years to know...The moment you realize u can't hide from Love... It will find u.......Dear Lord help me to recognize it when I'm found........ Thankful He's out there..... I just know he is....... So I'll just patiently wait...... While I make sure I'm able to be found. Sex sells, but I don't need a man to buy me, I want a man to "invest" in ME. I know my Worth...There's a difference between a man who spends on you and a man who invests in you ... figure it out.. Let her be strong where she's strong & you be strong where she's weak. It's the balance of a relationship. Being a man doesn't make you a leader. When your words match your effort + results, she'll trust you.

In terms of respect, don't demand what you don't offer. Not all women are going to play wives without being wives - those are usually the good ones. Friendship 1st. Relationship 2nd. Get your order right.

A man/woman who is single has never cheated - Make sure you're even in a relationship before you go tossing accusations. Too many single people assume they're in a relationship - it's like working a job they weren't hired for expecting a check.  Ask your self do you want a man who doesn't desire you enough to go after you. Simple If you set high standards for education & career why lower them for a date? I have to use the same intellect in my daily life as my dating life. You can't be eager for love but afraid of commitment - pick one. Just because you "vibe" doesn't mean he's heaven sent - you better consult with God before making any decisions. This isn't 5th grade - a lady doesn't have to wait around for a grown man to make up his mind..A grown adult man who likes you will pursue you - it's as plain and simple as that.Your relationship should make you proud. You should be honored to be in it. Anything else simply ain't worth it. Never be afraid to leave someone whose happiness depends on you ... you're not responsible for it. Follow your soul & have no regrets

If you haven't discussed intentions prior to intimacy, good luck.The only way to know what someone is thinking is to have a conversation about it ... with them. Some relationships have a "Use By This Date" warning, while others have a lifetime shelf life - learn the difference. For some, it wasn't a dinner date - she was just hungry. Unless you've discussed a relationship ... there is no relationship. When they say they don't know what they want, they don't want you - Hopefully you kept the receipt to return the dream you've been sold. Quit expecting what hasn't been discussed. "I got your back" "I believe in you" "Im proud of you" If you dont hear this in your relationship, you might be in the wrong 1.

Casual dating comes with no contract - state your intentions as soon as they become your intentions. Save yourself the embarrassment ... an uninterested lady isn't playing hard to get - she's just uninterested. Quit committing w/o a commitment conversation. If you haven't discussed a relationship, you're in 1 with yourself. Enjoy. A good woman multiplies what's given to her, so don't be afraid to give her your heart - she knows what to do with it. A woman who knows her worth is damn powerful point blank period. Figure it out. A relationship without a friendship is a waste of everyone's time. Sometimes the best way to show your value is by leaving. They don't appreciate what they have till it's gone ... get going. Don't confuse "Gold-digger" with a smart woman who expects to live well & have her needs met if she's offering the same thing.

Sunday, September 29, 2013

MESSAGE FOR THE SINGLE LADIES AND GENTS

MESSAGE FOR THE SINGLE LADIES

AND GENTS


A Very Touching Story....

A poor boy was in love with a rich

man's daughter….One day the boy
proposed to her and the girl
said…”Hey! Listen, your monthly
salary is my daily hand
expenses..How can I be involved with
you..?

How could you have thought of that?
I can never love you, so forget about
me and get engaged to someone else
at your level”

But somehow the boy could not
forget her so easily…..Some time 10
years later they stumbled into each
other in a shopping mall.
The lady again said….,”Hey.. ! You!
How are you? Now I’m married and
do you know how much my husband’s
salary is..? $15,700 per month! Can
you beat that? And he is also very
smart”

The guy’s eyes got wet with tears on
hearing those words from the same
lady….
A few seconds later, her husband
came around but before the lady
could say a word her husband seeing
the guy, said……
“Sir you’re here and you’ve met my
wife..” Then he said to his wife,”This
is my boss, I’m also one of those
working on his $100 million project!
And do you know a fact my dear? My
boss loved a lady but he couldn’t win
her heart….That’s why he has
remained unmarried since.
How lucky would that lady have been,
if she had married this my boss now?
These days, who would love someone
that much?"

He said all these to his wife.
The lady looked in total shock but
couldn’t utter a word….
————— ————— ————— ——-
Life is so short and it’s just like a
mirror.
You can only see as much as it
reflects. So don’t be too arrogant or
proud by looking down on others
because of their current situations.
Things get changed with time just
like the weather..! Don’t under
estimate anyone because everyone
has a great future!
Where you have been rejected before,
you will be celebrated soon in Jesus
name.

Shout a big AMEN if U're A believer
God bless you & Feel free to Like and
SHARE for Others to read!!

Saturday, September 28, 2013

When you know your worth there is no amount of money that will make you discount it...

Some men are sent to test you, challenge you, grow you, shape you; NOT every man is for YOU! The longer you SHOW him standards; the longer he'll respect those standards. Every man who asks for your hand in marriage doesn't deserve it.... Seats Please.....You're a nice young lady but you change to get him tattoo, drink, smoke, try new drugs and cuss. That's not attractive to him! Men don't like women who downgrade who they are; in order, to WIN them. Men love women who are strong and has their OWN mind! You have to have the attitude that only ME and GOD are in control of my life and what WE SAY GO! PERIOD! "DO NOT" miss out on your husband because you moved to fast or didn't have self control. You call the shots! If you do this you will have created a list of men that you have given yourself away to but NOT married to! You will face many test while dating, after every date just because he purchased you a meal doesn't mean sleep with him! No MAN" is perfect believers or unbelievers, however; you MUST pick the RIGHT battles for GOD promise to your life. God is faithful, he loves you and he's committed to pleasing you! God will never send you a person that doesn't show his reflection! Look within an see the QUEEN God created. Treat yourself good always and never accept someone in your life who doesn't do the same! When you know your worth there is no amount of money that will make you discount it....

Friday, August 30, 2013

Keep trusting



I've discovered that God is more interested in changing me than He is in changing my circumstances. I'm not saying that God won't deliver us from our struggles by changing the circumstances. But most of the time, God uses adversities to bring to light impurities in our characters or areas in which we need to improve. God deliberately uses some situations as a mirror, so we can recognize the problem in ourselves and learn to deal with it.


My faith is similar to a muscle. It grows stronger through resistance. It is exercised when it's being stretched, when it's being pushed. That's why God does not usually deliver us from adversity or uncomfortable situations overnight. He uses those times to build. our "spiritual muscle. " If he delivered us instantaneously from every problem, we'd never develop into the persons He really wants us to be.



Never put a question mark where God has a period. Quit living in a negative frame of mind, stewing about something that is over and done. Focus on what you can change, rather than what you cannot. Shake yourself out of that "should have, could have, would have" mentality, and don't let the regrets of yesterday destroy the dreams of tomorrow.


God is not limited to your family tree. He is not limited by your education, your social standing, your economic status, or your race. There is no such thing as the wrong side of the tracks with our God. If you will put your trust in Him. God will make your life significant. God longs to make something great out of your life. The only thing that limits God is your lack of faith.

The Knots Prayer:

The Knots Prayer:

Dear God,
Please un-tie the Knots that are in my Mind, my Heart, my Soul and my Life!
Remove the Have Nots, the Can Nots, and the Do Nots that run threw my Mind.
Erase the Will Nots, May Nots, Might Nots that have found a home in your Heart!
Release me from the Could Nots, Would Nots, Should Nots that obstruct and slow my life down, when i Needed you!
And most of all Dear God
I ask that you remove from my Mind, my Heart, my Soul, and my Life of the 'Am Nots' that I have allowed to hold me back over the years, during this bid, and before my future endeavors!
All these nots in my Life need to be removed, ESPECIALLY the Thought that I am Not Good enough to be respected and check up on during a TOUGH time of my Life! Amen 

Ms.K.Simpson

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Forget what's gone, appreciate what remains, and look forward to what's coming next.

THIS STORM - This is not just some random ordinary storm. It's a strategic storm of preparation; things are being blown away from and around you for a purpose. After this particular storm anything that’s salvageable goes with you to your new destination, whatever does not make it through the storm is to be left behind…The victorious woman can celebrate because in spite of her struggles, in spite of her pain, in spite of her disappointments, she was strong enough, patient enough, skilled enough, persistent enough to still come out on top, she’s a winner because God made
her a winner

Saturday, August 17, 2013

I am Kayundra Simpson

I am Kayundra Simpson

I refused to be forgotten 
Some of you thought I would stay at the bottom
A lot of you treated me rotten
A smile as big as the morning Sun
Welcome to my new life it just begun
I'm not ashamed of my past
Nor am I trash
Definitely not just a piece of ASS
What I am is a woman that has being called
To teach and share my life experience with some of y'all
Thanks you for all the No's 
I have learned the friends and the foe's
I don't need you to validate me 
I was validate a long time ago
Thank you Jesus for carrying me 
At the lowest of low when I just didn't want to live no more
I stepped out of the old and in to the new
Unfortunately behind I had to leave a  whole lot of you
I have a name that's different and unique 
It's time to beat the streets
In case you didn't no yes this is how I eat
I like to eat well 
So all you doubters standing on the sideline can really just go to hell
Yes I have been to Jail a time or two
So you goggled me that's what you were suppose to do
As you can see yeah I've been through
But what does that have to do with you
You couldn't handle my life
So the next time you want to talk about it think twice
You couldn't walk a day in my shoes
But you want to sit up and talk about what I've been Thur
Your life ain't squeaky clean you have skeletons to
I didn't go through all of this for my life to stay the same
I don't know about you but I see fame all around my name
Don't get me wrong I'm not going against the grain
Just remember Kayundra Simpson is my Name
Never again will my life be the same
Copyrights©2013 Kayundra Simpson