Some Real Talk

A woman’s journey through life is with her heart and that’s where you have to reach her. Love making does not begin late at night; it starts early in the morning from the time you wake up until the time you go to bed at night, it’s an all day thing. She responds to love; she responds to affection, love is as important to a woman as respect is important to the man. A call, a text, a love note just to let her know how important she is to you, tell her throughout the day how much you love her, value her, let her know that she is the ONLY one for you. You can’t ignore her, holler at her, treat her any kind of way throughout the day, get home, be on the computer all times of the night and when you’re ready expect for her to respond. She won’t, because you won’t, step it up

You have to make some decisions about what’s important to you, if this relationship is important to you, you will make some necessary adjustments in order to sustain it. I’m not going to chase you down or check your phone to see who you've been talking and sending texts to. You’re a grown man and I’m not running behind you to make sure that you treat me right. God gave us free will and I’m giving that same free will back to you. If you don’t want this relationship it’s on you because believe me when I tell you, if you won’t treat me right there is someone else out there who will…

A woman wants a man who will tell her that he loves her during the night and show it during the day… We can learn from anyone but it’s difficult to get advice at times from someone who will be going home to their mate and they’ll be all “hugged up” tonight while we go home to an empty house. Let’s be honest here, there are times when even the most fulfilled and happiest people who are single have their lonely moments. I remember when I took this flight, when we landed I noticed almost everyone around me pulling out their cell phones to let their loved ones know they had landed safely as the plane taxied down the runway. A profound empty feeling came over me that I’ve never felt before and the realization came over me that I had no one to call. In reality there was no one that really cared if I had landed safely or not. My mother my grandparents are all deceased.. I really dont have a relationship with my father... But then I looked out the window and I looked up at the sky and I said, “Lord, you already know I landed safely because you were the one flying the plane to insure my safety.” Loneliness is real; God looked down on Adam and said it is not good for man to be alone. So if you’re lonely, God understands your pain. He knows that even though people are around you, when it’s all said and done, there’s no one to call. But I encourage you to look out the window and look up, when it’s all said and done God is no one to call because HE IS THE ONE TO CALL.. Thanks DC

Use me lord for your in control of my life

I totally surrender to you lord have your way.. I'm thanking you in advance for what is about to become.. Not my way but your way lord.. Thanks you for removing the people that didn't mean me any good. Thanks you for showing me who my real friends were.. Thanks you for allowing me to go through these series of test.. Thanks you for showing me that's I had to go through it in order for me to get to the next level. Thank you for keeping me when I wanted to give up. One thing about God when you think that all else has fail he has already worked it out. It may not be what you want but just what you need for him to draw you closer to him. Sometimes he has to remove everything and everyone to get your attention.. See God has something special that he is getting me ready for..... I receive it I believe it and I'm claiming it in the mighty name of Jesus..


So when times get ruff don't look as it as God has forgot about you. Look at it as, he had to break you so you could only depend on him.. I had to learn to stop depending on others.. Man will let you down every time.. God is the source of any and everything you NEED.... When you about to lost this and that don't be afraid of what people will say.. Just drop to your needs and pray. They are going to talk about you anyway.. Yet that's all they are going to do.. Drop to your knee's to the one who can help you. Who can and will turn you mess into a blessing.. Just know your not prefect and anything can happen to you where you can lose it all in a matter of minutes.. Ask yourself are you strong enough to handle it.. When you go through that's when you have to find your strength... Your a lot stronger then you think, but God already knew that... God don't make any mistakes.. I so love the skin I'm in. I love what God is doing with me.. Don't let you surrounding or your problems keep you down. Keep your head up High, know God's got you.. Stop being ashamed, prideful because your going through somethings.. Stop I repeat worrying about what people will say cause you lost your home care business child ect... Every bad thing that goes on in your life is not a curse. I'm speaking from experience been there.. So stop feeling sorry for your self its just a speed bump called life but My God always comes through right in time.. Not in your time but his time.. Trust me God can make something out of nothing keep going don't give up..

My life was headed so out of control but he shifted... He saw a master piece and wouldn't give up on me. So that means I can't give up on me either.. You may be going through it...... dry up those tears hold your head up high and smile.. He needs you to know he's got you.. He can make your wrongs right just hold on keep believing.....

I straddle the fence for so long til God basically said I'm going to show who's God. When I tell you he broke me all the way down. Remove everything and everyone that I couldn't do anything but go to him.. He had to get me by myself quite in a place where I could hear him. I had to may distractions people things ect.. Now don't get me wrong yes I knew God prayed everyday.. Just didn't understand why he called a sinner like me to do his work.. Well he knew the things that I had been through or was going through that my story would and could help someone else.. I embrace my calling... I must say he has humbled me all the way down...

Lord, I pray that you surround me with favor as a shield. Allow my ears to be open to hear you speak, my eyes be open to your leading & my heart open to receive God’s wisdom. I Bind the spirit of rebellion, stubbornness, double mindedness, pride, self- sufficiency, procrastination, laziness, complacency, foolishness and Spiritual Blindness far from my that I will not be delayed nor diverted from moving ahead in the works you have created for me to accomplish. I pray to attain all the wealth that comes from the full assurance of understanding, resulting in true knowledge of Christ, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge. May wisdom enter the heart and knowledge be pleasant to the soul. May discretion guard & understanding watch over me to deliver from the ways of evil. I pray that we will not be carnally minded, which is death, but be spiritually minded, which is life and peace. Fill us with the knowledge of your will in all spiritual wisdom & understanding, so that we may walk in a manner worthy of You, to please You in all respects, bearing much fruit for Your glory. Please give us a deep thirst for your word & may we have a strong hunger to move in the power of the Holy Spirit. Trust in God with all your heart, & lean not on your own understanding; acknowledge him in all his ways. Please father give fresh insight and inspiration to do your work and renew our strength as eagles


It's not what’s taken away that counts. It's what you do with what you have left. We’re at the end of the worst of it and on our way to the BEST of it! Reflecting back over 2012… Thinking of the wrongs I attempted to make right, The times I should have stood firm ~ yet I wavered, the times he turned my MESS into a message, the times I was doubtful & should have kept the faith… God has truly shown Me Favor, Grace & Mercy. Despite my shortcoming he continued to let me win OVER & OVER & OVER again. God says, “I know your heart & the desires within, I've picked you up time & time again. Don’t allow your right now situation to determine your fate; declare this is NOT how the story ends.” Your life is already predestined & you are destined to win! Less of Me & More of you ~ Lord I Thank You!

Ms.K. Simpson Author, Motivational Speaker, Consultant

Author & Poet,Writing is My Passion because I was born for Bestseller Status! God has gotten a hold of me & my life. A changed woman on a mission.

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She is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her" Proverbs 3:15

Mind your own business

The life God has for you is bigger than the one you are living..Don't let a season of your life define your lifetime... Don't worry about the by standers they only have something to say when your going through something, even in the mist of your storm or doing bad. They don't know what God has for you let them talk.... Funny thing is when your up.... all they have to say is your being fake your cant keep it real ect..can't wait for you to fall.. What gets me you become the center of their conversation. Where the story has been told so many ways, but they don't have enough courage to call you, they call everyone else trying to see what's going on with you. Not in the sense of concern but being noisy. Sticking their nose where it really don't belong. Mine your own business people.. Whatever that person is going through you couldn't handle one day in their shoes or their life. So when they ones that may be bold enough to contact you tell them this...God got me I'm good!!!!
 Its not a matter of IF its going to happen its a matter of WHEN its going to happen.  God's got you & your situation he's in control...get out of the drivers seat..


Doesn't it suck that gossip, criticism & judgement have become entertainment.. Get you a life and stop being so fascinated with others....People always have opinions on how others should live their lives. Stop that!!!!!!  It's annoying. I'm only looking out for people that look out for me. Salute the Real... I Learned the hard way. Sometimes you got to give people the eviction notice in your life. Their time is up.. So when you get to calling and texting and get no response hmmmm Silence is golden they will get the point.. Everyone can't go to your next level!!! When GOD close those door stop trying to reopening them.

I'm Just Saying....

Things change fast… The people who vowed to be there come up missing, the ones who made promises start forgetting.Crazy what a test of time can do to even the strongest of emotions. You can tell when it’s authentic, genuine, and coming from the right place.If it’s not really you, I don’t respect it. Nobody is perfect, without fault, etc. Its okay to be you, flaws and all because we all fall short. Imitation is suicide. Again: There. Is. Nothing. Wrong. With. Just. Being. Yourself! yes, that was a rant. Take it how you want to.


Do not settle for someone who you know have not matured enough to handle your emotional changes. You need comfort not anguish. Men - Yes she is a handful so don't take her on unless you are big enough to handle her.Don't expect from your spouse what you are unable to give. Instead give what you want to get.If you allowed it for 10 years, putting your foot down now means you must do so with patience and no blame.


Crazy what a test of time can do to even the strongest of emotions.Crazy the difference a year can bring. Especially when it comes to feelings for certain people. At first it’s “Lol’s” all day and a few problems later it’s “I was busy” and then eventually it’s just “hope all is well. Scary people make dating more complicated than it has to be. The insecurities, doubts, & walls stop things from flowing naturally. If you’re not strong enough to be vulnerable, you’re not ready to be in a relationship. Women scared to be lonely, men scared to put work in, both scared to open up and connect. The cycle has everybody losing. You attract what you are. If you’re inconsistent and all over the place, the 1’s you attract will be too. Love isn't hard, people are just difficult. Don’t take time for granted. Say what you need to say while the person still cares to listen. Once you lose their ear, you can say goodbye to their heart. You’re not getting it back. Dating can be as simple as you make it. Lies aside, games away, BS to the back and just focus on building something real. It’s not rocket science. Commit to something, stand by it thru the ups and the downs, communicate and be honest. But you’d run if it felt too real huh? You’d get scared if it started feeling familiar? You wouldn't work, that’s not in you, huh? Its still a few rare 1s out there. They’re ready but not forcing it, they’re just waiting for somebody to show them different

When God created the woman he was thinking about you.

When God created the woman he was thinking about you.

By the time the Lord made woman, he was into his sixth day of working overtime. An angel appeared and said, "Why are you spending so much time on this one?" And the Lord answered,” Have you seen the spec sheet on her? She has to be completely washable, but not plastic, have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable,.run on Diet Coke and leftovers, have a lap that can
hold four children at one time, have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart and have two pairs of hands."
The angel was astounded at the requirements. "Two pair of hands! No way! And that’s just on the standard model? That’s too much work for one day. Wait until tomorrow to finish." But I can’t," the Lord protested.

"I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart. She already heals herself when she is sick AND can work 18 hour days." The angel moved closer and touched the woman.” But you have made her so soft, Lord.....""She is soft,” the Lord agreed,” but I have also made her tough. You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish." Will she be able to think?", asked the angel. The Lord replied, "Not only will she be able to think, she will be able to reason and negotiate." The angel then noticed something, and reaching out, touched the woman’s cheek. "Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model. I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one that’s not a leak, the Lord said corrected that a tear!" "What’s the tear for?" the angel asked.

The Lord said, "The tear is her way of expressing her joy, her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love, her loneliness, her grief and her pride." The angel was impressed.” You area
genius, Lord. You thought of everything! Woman is truly amazing." And she is! Women have strengths that amaze men. They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold
happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous.

They fight for what they believe in. They stand up to injustice. They don’t take "no" for an answer when they believe there is a better solution. They go without so their family can have. They go to the doctor with a frightened friend. They love unconditionally. They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards. They are happy when they hear about a birth or wedding. Their hearts break when a friend dies. They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they thinkthere is no strength left.

They know that a hug and a kiss can help to heal a broken heart. Women come in all sizes, in all colors and shapes. They’ll drive, fly, walk, run, or e-mail you to show how much they care about you. The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning! They bring joy and hope. They have compassion and ideals. They give moral support to their family and friends. Women have vital things to say and
everything to give!

Random Thoughts..

You must not hide from troubles, you must master them, you must see every problem as a stepping stone towards enlightenment. That's were you crack the code for better living... you are more than a conqueror.....With God by your side anything is possible, for together you make a formidable combination. he can make perfection out of you, if you LISTEN and mediate on him day & night....

A HUSBAND doesn't need to test drive (sleep with you) before he takes you off the lot. Many men yes, but not a HUSBAND.EVERY man that smiles at you, compliments or greets you is NOT your future husband. Some men are just gentlemen and want NOTHING from you. Be a woman in ADVANCE that a man NEEDS in his life, rather than somebody just ready to get to know anyone that gives them attention.
I don't want someone who sees the good about me, I want someone who sees the bad and still loves me.
Someone who cares for you is someone who considers you without looking for how it benefits them. If you can't keep your word, you can't keep me listening. Life is a beautiful thing when you eliminate the drama. Grace gives you a chance to get right, it doesn't give you an excuse to do wrong. Make sure you're not looking to be blessed and blocking your blessing at the same time. Surround yourself with people who believe in what you do. It makes the journey a whole lot easier.

Never stress the could haves.. If it should have, It would have.. When you value yourself, you make better decisions for yourself. It's time for you to start blocking the things that's been trying to block you. Tell yourself: There's LIFE beyond this! Your progress may annoy others, but that's THEIR problem, not yours. Keep standing! Sin is like a bullet and a bullet can do 2 things wound you or kill you. It's only because of God's grace why some of us are still living.

Stop looking for closure..

If you look back for too long you’re bound to crash. Focus on what’s in front of you. It’s pointless looking for closure in a situation that closed you out. Closure is a personal decision, not a mutual agreement. Don’t waste your time with long goodbyes. Stop giving useful time to useless situations.

YOu want to spoil me this is how...

Spoil me with loyalty!!!!!!! #inthatorder
Sometimes the threat is not those that oppose you, it’s those that were supposed to be beside you. Loyalty is rare

Forgiveness

Yes, finding forgiveness is easier said than done, but that doesn't mean it isn't necessary.Things are happening way too fast to stay mad at anybody. It’s bigger issues. Lets communicate and move forward.Can’t force somebody to work with you, so if you’re reaching out & they’re not responding, at least you did what you could. It doesn't matter who was wrong. The blame game is a losing game. All th
at matters is that YOU care enough to make it right. You don’t have forever to make things right. You either take the chance now or you risk never having it again later. If you feel a certain way, address it so things can be clarified and hopefully fixed. If you hold it in, nothing changes. Later” isn't guaranteed. You don't have time to stay mad, hold grudges, or dwell on the past. Communicate before its too late. Tell your loved ones you care about them. No minute past the present is promised. Respect to you and your opinion. I’m just not debating you.

A Real Man

A real man will never hesitate to put the work in for something he believes is worth the effort.Stop thinking you deserve the fruit before you sow the seed. You work first, then get the benefits later.It takes work to earn the loyalty of a good woman. You have to show her you’re a man worth holding it down for.
An inconsistent man cannot expect to have a loyal woman.A lot of men asking for loyalty but only a few being consistent long enough to be trusted.

If they show you their hand at the beginning of the game and you still decide to play, then you've decided to play yourself..Anybody can throw something away or walk out but only a rare few can fix a good thing and turn it into something great.

If you don't know the difference between a man liking what he sees and loving who you are, you might be trying to get a man to love you with your looks, and not your soul..
Never forget - just because he like it doesn't always mean he will respect it....

Changing your circle

Changing your circle


People have two roles in our lives, either they are loving us (building us up) or they are hating us (tearing us down). Where love resides, there is no hate. As much as we like to sugar-coat it, there is no happy in between. Either a person has your best interest at heart or they simply don’t! The problem with holding on to people who clearly don’t, is that we lose ourselves in the process of keeping someone who is not adding any value to our life or situation anyway. (That goes for the people who love you in your face and dog you behind your back.)

In Essence, we are playing ourselves. Yeah, everybody plays the fools sometimes; so true. It’s when we decide to play it over and over that leads us down a path of self destruction. If you know how it felt the first time, why sign up for round two? If you know how long it took you to get over it the first time, why are you so willing to start from scratch again? I’m sure you don’t like pain, or do you?

Sometimes we give too much power to people and circumstances in life. Our strength comes by trusting God not trusting men. How easily we forget that. Just remember that God is love therefore he puts love in our life! There is no insecurity in what He blesses us with. The drama, issues, baggage, depression, anxiety, etc are things that we put in our lives by not putting our true self first and trusting God. We allow ourselves to “get use” to the drama thinking it’s normal. That’s just the way life is, right? Wrong, it doesn't have to be….


So think about the people and things in your life and really determine if they bring love or bring hate; rather its self hate; just drama and pain; backstabbing, jealousy, etc. If it’s not love, ask yourself is it really worth it in the long run?

You probably already know the answer, but will you follow it?

~ Be Blessed ~

My Ideal Man

MY IDEAL MAN....


I am often asked what it is I am looking for in my ideal man…My answer to that is simple....As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself?...I pay my own bills without the help of any man....what can he bring to the table? I am not referring to money, I need something more....I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life....I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man....I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked....believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster....I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden, nor do I want to be one for him.... I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go though as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded....I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man....I need a man who is family-oriented, one who can be a leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God....I need someone whom I can respect..in order to be submissive, I must respect him...I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive....he just has to be worthy....And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. He may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me.... God made woman to be a help-mate for a man. I can't help a man who can't help himself....You think I'm asking alot, don't you? Sure I am.....BECAUSE I'M WORTH IT!!!!!!

I want a man that will this is a good read Marcus Smith Joins me with his version to what I want.. Hope you like it

I want a man that will




I want a man that will remover the hair from my eyes

I want a man that will want more the just to rub my thighs

I want a man that will find my inner beauty

I want a man that will take the time to pursue me

I want a man that will open doors and send me flower

I want a man that will stimulate my mind for hoursI want a man that will no what I need before I have to askI want a man that will make love to my mind

I want a man that will give me quality time

I want a man that will not make me cry

I want a man that will not lie

I want a man that I will not have to ask why

I want a man that will have my back

I want a man that knows how to be a man

I want a that's ready to sit down and make wedding plans

I want a man that's ready to make me is wife

I want a man that knows this is what he wants and don't have to think twice

I want a man to do many things

Now tell me what you can bring

Copyrights©2009 KayundraSimpson


This is what Mr. Marcus Smith had to say to what I want...

Some want a man she loves

some want a mn that loves her

A content woman is expecting both

A few want it all

But most want it small

Simple... somewhat discrete

Exclusive.. but forever concrete

Yea, I'm pretty sure

She wants her love to be pure

After purity comes security

And Stability

Room to expand her ability

Hmmm what she requests

And without a bullet proof vest

Around her heart

Where she's seen as a Work of Art

Connected, yet apart

From the chaos and the work place

Where her soul first place

Instead of living the worst case scenario

Like a play toy

A baby mother

Victim of a lady lover

Is what she wants not...

By a thread holding on

Trampled by a rolling stone

She would rather be alone

She wants to heal and be healed

She wants to love and be loved

She wants good conversation

That gives confirmation

Of her desire to go higher

and her to exceed..

Copyrights©2009MarcusSmith


Back at you Marcus

I know my worth others dont

Settling is something I can't do I just want

It took me a while to realize who I am

Before God came in my life I just don't give a damn

About anything or anyone

That was before I got the Holy Spirit The Father and The Son...


What God has for me is for me

So I learned how to sit down and wait patiently

For him to send me my king

Im not in a hurry do you know what I mean

I"m just expressing some of the things I want My Future Husband to bring

You suppose to speak it into existence and tell God what you want


I want a man to finish my sentence know all my thoughts

One that will accept me as well as all my faults

I'm a virtual woman waiting on a God fearing man

Not just any man just the one God has in is plan

So you see settling I just want do I want let the devil get the upper hand

On God's word is where I stand


So I sit and wait

God's an on time God he's never late

I don't walk by sight I walk by faith

Copyrights©2009 KayundraSimpson

Giving up.. Yes that's something I tried to do

Giving up yes is a coward thing to do

Who are you to judge me when your don't no what I'm going through

I give so much of myself

To the point I just don't have anything left

I uplift so many of you

Sharing parts of my story of what I've been or going through

To let you know to just hold on God's Got you

Some of you are saying how are you saying that when you tried to take your life

Yes I did that and didn't even think twice

I hadn't slept in 4 days hadn't ate in 3

The enemy caught me off guard and came after me

That's still no excuse for what I did 25 Valiums 2 bottles of wine

Guess what the EMT got to me so that means its just not my time

Everything you go through is a lesson learn

I had just reach my limit and was tired of getting burned

I only tell someone what I may want them to know which want be a lot just to see

Who's really there for me

I'm laughing because so many of you have so much to say

Take care of you, your own life don't worry about Ms.Kaye

Stop sticking your nose in others people's business when you don't have the whole story at the end of the day...

I'm broken I really need time to heal

Don't take it personal I don't want all those question or any of that negativity and that's real

I"m human I have feelings too 

Don't let this hard exterior fool you 

So don't get mad when I don't take your calls

I'm doing whats best for me at this time that's all

Your concerns I really appreciate

I'm paying real close attention to the ones that's real and fake

This is my life at stake I can't afford to make any more mistakes™

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I'm not sharing this with you to get a whole lot of likes or comments I'm sharing because it's someone out there about to explode. Its someone that feels the same way I did.. I'm sharing it to tell them stop running to people man will fail you every time... Run to God he's never late always on time..

I really don't care what anyone has to say about me at this point.. I have taking on everyone else problems been everything everyone else wanted me to be or do.. I have wore the Wonder Woman cape long enough.. Don't tell me I'm this and that... when half of you can't pick up the phone just to ask me how are you doing or do I need anything? Yet when you hear something bad or something went wrong with me you break your necks to call text ect.. Checking on me that goes a long way with me. I don't require a lot... I'm not trying to be someone I'm not, At this point in my life I just want to do what God has for me to do. My passion is writing uplifting others and giving back.. I look back over my life to how far God's has brought me. I love me I realize that wasn't a good move at all. Yet the experience it gave me I will be able to help someone else. Its a reason God spared my life.. All I can come up with is he has a lot more work for me to do. Now don't get me wrong I'm not sharing this with you because I want or need your pity. I'm doing it because God put it on my heart to share.. You never know what someone is going through.... 

I've totally surrender my all to God So come on devil I know you will be coming at me real hard.. Fake friends get on down..I don't have a place for you so move around. God is my everything and he shall supply all my needs.. See when I finally decided I was out of the streets completely and wanted to totally commit and do what God wanted me to do.. All hell broke loose.. Whats funny is all these sideline people that swear they know whats going on with me or my life... I can count on one hand how many I talk to. Even those people, I don't let completely in..We all go through things at times and need someone we can talk to. This whole situation has taught me to stay true to myself. I can go and talk to God about any and everything.. With God for me who can be against me. I'm over fake friends, people just wanted to be around to see what I'm going to do..People calling like they are concern when really they are not at all. Its funny but some people love to see you down thy thrive off that so much...Who was there to be a listening ear for me? To just listen..... The funny thing is people say to me. I don't worry about you because your Kaye, and you will make it do what it do.. Another one of my favorites is your so inspirational you have a lot of faith.. How are you going to give up now, when you write and inspires others all day everyday.. I'm not perfect, there is only one perfect man and that's Jesus.. So stop trying to judge me.. 

I let everything I had going on just build up to the point I just exploded.. Someone called me Fake lol...... now that was a first....Sometimes there are things you just don't need to speak on.. Take what others are saying about you and keep moving. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and its just that.. Take whats for you and keep moving.. I'm not put on this earth to please anyone but God as of now that's what I'm doing. 

Someone woke up this morning feeling low every day God wakes you up is a reason to keep going and not give up. You may not have what you want but you have what you need. Trust in God I promise you he can and will supply all your needs.. Whatever your going through please don't hold it all in.. Talk to someone, lets someone in.. Don't let the devil win. ~Ms.K.Simpson~

Are you really ready...

Sometimes it will take being in her presence to know that she’s the ONE. It’s cool to have preferences and expectations, but don’t miss out on a godsend focusing on her race, hair length, size, etc. Make sure that what you WANT is in alignment with what you NEED complementing your life of purpose. Pray, discern, and then choose.  It doesn't take a man MULTIPLE years to know if you’re the ONE. You deserve to be with someone who knows your WORTH, rather than someone who is either lost, not ready, or just has you in the mix with others in attempt to find the best fit for his life. You’re a jewel, rather than a competitor on Eliminate. Ladies, it really is okay to let a man lead you. It does not mean you are weak or unable to care for self it just means you are so comfortable in your own strength you can submit to a God fearing man and allow him to play his part in your life. So many times, we take on a superwoman mentality because of things that may have happened in the past (kids dads not being around, your own father not being there, just used to having to play both roles). If we submit to God, we will have no problem submitting to a God lead man because if he is following Him, we know we are going in the right direction. Don't be so "superwoman" and "I can do it by myself" you miss out on the man purposed for you.

Love complements you in the RIGHT season, with the RIGHT person, for the RIGHT reasons. Be prepared in advance. Are you really ready for love or just trying to fill a void? Be honest with yourself.God wants to turn your broken pieces into a restored masterpiece. Give him access to your "heart" on today.

Be vulnerable,open & completely honest w/ your mate. She's there To HELP, rather than HINDER. Pursue her RELENTLESSLY. Also remember, she's not "officially yours" until after I DO. Studying & learning your mate should be a lifetime class, rather than a 1 semester assignment. Communication is essential.. If you can't get along, it won't last long..If God ain't 1st in your life, NO other relationships outside of him will work. In order for love to survive & GROW, SELFISHNESS has to DIE..if he's into you, he will pursue you. Don't ASSUME anything! Quality time is a must. Anyone that u VALUE should be of PRIORITY in your life. A faithful man that leads & listens, will have a submissive wife that loves & honors. 

Insecurity issues are residue left from the people who've done you wrong or the one's that relationships didn't work out right. Forgiving them not only frees you from holding people in bondage, but it also allows God access to heal your heart to love & be loved again. Be able to UPGRADE your woman SPIRITUALLY ,rather than DEGRADE her EMOTIONALLY. Be the love in advance that u want rendered to you in the future.

When was the last time you spent time w/ the one you love WITHOUT interacting on your FB, twitter, instagram, etc while in their presence. Sometimes we just need to leave the laptops closed, tablets powered off, and phones on the charger while giving our ALL into quality time w/ another. Never attempt to FORCE a person to love you. Love is given FREELY from a persons heart w/ pure motives. Settling for less than you deserve is only saying that I'd "temporarily" rather have someone than no one.  IMPATIENCE & COMPROMISING will always give the WRONG people access.. Don't settle!

Lust

"LUST is a strong sexual attraction to another person which is mostly short-lived, whereas love inconveniences itself for the convenience of others. Love lasts longer than lust.

The man or woman in lust would do virtually anything to get
his or her need met. The unsuspecting partner who wrongly translated all those gestures as pure love gestures gets led astray and also develops strong love and affection for the lustful partner.

After satisfying his or her lust the lustful partner moves on to another person. The partner who fell in love with the lustful man or woman will then find it so difficult to forget about him or her. He or she may try so hard to keep him or her and end up getting hurt. The partner who was in love desired a lasting relationship, whereas the one in lust was just interested in satisfying his or her sexual desire."~Relationship Matters (18+)

Real Talk Moment 101....

If your only catching guys who want a One Night Stand not a Lifetime Commitment, take another look at how your baiting the hook! Single Men  If God is not the head of our lives, we shouldn't attempt to be the head of hers. Dysfunctional leadership causes dysfunctional marriages, families, etc. No man on earth is perfect, but in order to lead a GREAT FAMILY, our imperfections should be placed in the hand of our PERFECT Go. Some people will meet the RIGHT one and then run them away, due to UNREAL expectations & UNHEALED places in their heart. DON'T let that be you!!!! If it seemed like forever to FIND her or be FOUND by him, make sure that you spend the rest of your life proving that you were well worth it. Not everyone left you..some people were snatched away from you(they didn't even want to leave)...God is just that serious about his children and their destiny..

Being mean, standoffish, or having the need to control situations doesn't get the man you want, it makes him FLEE. EVERY person shouldn't have to pay for what someone else did to you. Don't let OLD hurt block your heart from NEW love. Your heart is SAFER in God's hand, rather than your own. Allow him to heal you which allows you to forgive, move past, and develop into a prize possession for whoever finds you. The best gift that you could possibly give her is that of a Godly man wrapped up as a husband w/ character, integrity, commitment, communication,understanding, and a sense of humor all in one.  If pursuing with a purpose is NOT your intention, DON'T waste her time!! A lot of people will miss out on the RIGHT one, ASSUMING that everyone is like their last one. Love REQUIRES a forgiving heart, rather than one that REFUSES to let things go. 

 (Proverbs 18:21)Words have POWER!! You can't confess in your heart that there are NO good men, and at the same time expect God to bless you with one. Rather it's through social networking or in person, men can sense NEGATIVE. Pray for God to renew your heart & thought process . With a POSITIVE attitude, in the RIGHT season, he will FIND you. SO many are CURRENTLY so abused & hurt from their PAST, that they've decided to SETTLE w/ being someone's sex partner, part time cuddler, open relationship boy/girlfriend,etc, WITHOUT sharing their ENTIRE HEART with another. Holding another hostage for what they've done to us in the PAST, will make us miss out on a potential PRESENT or FUTURE blessing. You're worthy of love and deserve to love & be loved again. Cast your heart to God so that he can renew it, then prepare it to place you in position to find or be found. EVERY friend shouldn't be in consideration to be your lover in covenant. You can easily find someone to be cool with, but finding someone to complement you, love you unconditional, and understand you is something that requires prayer, discernment, and confirmation in your spirit from God. Be patient!

 It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know if he's into you or not. For MOST situations, it doesn't take outside help to distinguish how YOU are being treated from how YOU should be treated. Sexing him will give the both of you soul ties & orgasms, but NOT a ring & his heart. Knowing that he's interested in or with somebody else, takes you from being in position to be found to in position to be used, abused, or just his fling on the side. YOU can't continue to blame men for what YOU allow. When YOU respect & honor your heart & body, men will do the same. Staying with the WRONG person until someone better comes along, shows that you can't be content in your season(s) of singleness. The day that YOU realize that YOU deserve better, is the day that you'll STOP trying to make the WRONG one's be the RIGHT ONE. If you truly know that God is NOT a God of confusion, stay out of situations that you don't have a CLEAR understanding about. If he really wants you, he will let NOTHING stop him from marrying you!! You're made in the image of Christ and should be pursued wholeheartedly or you should just remain SINGLE until the RIGHT one comes along.
Marry her because you love her & she complements you, rather than just because of her physical presentation. Models that ONLY have beautiful exteriors look good if you're trying to impress the world, but have a short shelf life when it comes to love & marriage. Connect with someone that honors & respects God and she will do the same for you. If she's fully submitted to God, she'll submit to you as you do the same for her. A woman that guards her tongue from gossip & foolishness, will speak life into you rather than belittling you. A wife will either complement your purpose or hinder it. Pray, discern, and pay attention before saying I DO. PRIDE will have you blaming EVERYBODY for EVERY failed relationship in your past. It’s easy to blame another, but you will keep repeating the same cycles until you either STOP compromising with the WRONG people or START being truthful about there being issues within you that you've chosen to hide behind your “take me as I am” mentality.

You're A Woman

Every now and then I need uplifting and encouraging.. Thanks Myra Surratt-Walters  Karonda Nottage and Rayna R Stephens.. We all go through something its a matter of how you deal with it. Your not weak because you cry and let it all out. Nor because your going through somethings. Don't be ashamed to open up, let someone in. you'll never know who can help you in your time of need. I know your saying well I don't want anyone in my business.  Yes you have to be careful who you let in your business because not everyone has your best interest at heart. Ask yourself why are you worried about what people say they talked about Jesus.. If your worried then Pray to God to open up your heart to receive the people that will keep what you say to them between you guys... Go to that person and tell them I want to remain anonymous. I'm telling you from experience drop that pride. You never know how your story can help someone else. God allowed you go go through it for a reason.. The only person you need to be worried about is God getting the Victory after your storm has passed... So what your about to get evicted, behind in your utility's lost your job if they get to talking asked them can they help you. or point you in the right direction.. See we tend to worry about the wrong things these days.. Well ask yourself this. How can someone help you if they don't know whats going on.. Just know your are not alone.. When your trying to do right that's when its seems like everything is all out of place and more problems as well as obstacles come up. I know it  makes you want to go back to the familiar. Don't do that God is just getting you ready for something Amazing just hold on a little while longer..

You're A Woman
You're a strong woman that can hold her own
You've been through a lot I see why your so strong
I don't know how you keep it all together
You seem to hide your feeling from others now that's kind of clever
You're a woman that won't give up without a fight
I must say that's one of the things I like
You're a woman that tries to keep it all together
You intimidate people therefor
They don't know how to get on your level
You're a woman that's God fearing and keeps God first
Yet people are always trying to bring out your worst
Your a woman that has changed her life around
Yet some people like to still through up your past
They won't let you live it down
You don't have to acknowledge them with words
Just be silent and not make a sound
You're a woman that was lost but now your found
God choose you and now you've turn your life around
You're a woman that don't care what people think or say
Because God keeps blessing you each and everyday
Don't give up your blessings are on the way
Copyrights©2012 KayundraSimpson Real Talk What Others Are Afraid To Say Volume 1

You never know who is going through it...

 I'm encouraging you to check on a friend or a love one.. They may be down on their luck, lights have been disconnected and their sleeping in the dark, don't have food to eat, about to lose their home right before the Holidays, sick, stuck in the house with no way to move around. You never know who is going through it.. Some people on the outside you see them and you think they have it all together.. Life has taught them to be strong and keep their heads up.. They hide their pain with a smile... Know one is perfect, you never really know who is going through what. I challenge each you all one to reach out and check on someone. Even if you can't help monetary help with just a simple hello, I miss you, I was just thinking about you.. You wouldn't believe how far that will go when your feeling mighty low..

For the ones that's going through this and reading this right now. I want to tell you God has not forgotten about you. I know it seems like all hope is gone but trust in God he will make away. I know your probably saying she is just talking. I will tell you this I don't speak on things I have not endured because I wouldn't no what to talk about. Half of the stuff I just named Me myself is going through.. Am I ashamed no because I have realize that God is truly using me. In order for me to go to the next level I have to past the test..  So Ashamed to let the world no I'm human I make mistakes I to fall short and yes my money get funny.. I just don't have that kind of time or energy to try to impress anyone anymore. I'm living for God and I want all that he has for me..

 EVERYONE has a past. That's why JESUS had to come to give us a future. Your past does not devalue you but educates you. If you keep running back to the familiar every time your in a bind I assure you will will continue to repeat that test... I'm talking from experience. If you will push through fatigue and pain to get to Jesus His presence will make you whole! This next door is about to open NEW doors. Move towards excellence even when times are hard. Fear nothing remember God is life and life is God. When it comes to LIFE, you add by subtracting. Subtract what's not working. There's NOTHING embarrassing about having a past. What's embarrassing is your past still being your present when you KNOW better. OK so your going through a rough time and your afraid what others are going to have to say about you.. I'm confused to why you care are you living for others to validate you or for God to uplift you and take you higher.

So what you don't have it like you use to have it but baby in my Kayundra voice when you completely submit to God the things you use to have will be nothing to what my father will do.. Trust God....Life comes to teach you how to SEE. You can do it! God has a STRATEGY for YOU!  For God to allow HIMSELF to be our inheritance is blessing enough forever...

So many of  you are afraid to tell you story and let other no your not perfect not knowing your story can help someone else.. I quit caring what people thought of me years ago. Not trying to keep up with the Jones.. What I'm trying to do is walk into my destiny.. See I know what its like to be Homeless, to turn a trick, have no food to eat, be in the dark because my lights have been disconnected, to go to jail, to get evicted and the list goes on and on. A lot of you have been there too.. They say as a mother you do what you have to to in order to take care of your kids.. Yeah that was my mind set at one point and time... Til I got tired of going through the same mess and not passing the test. So that I could go to the next level.. I'm not proud of the things I did. I just can't allow it to keep me in bondage anymore.. Looking back over my life and telling myself when my back is up against the wall..your a hustler Kaye you know how to get money but all money is not good money.. If it comes fast it don't last. I just can not sell myself short anymore for a dollar.. Because the God I serve said he will supply all my needs all I have to to is Ask Trust and Believe Then shall I Receive.. I have fault this for far to long.. Now its time for me to take back everything the Devil has stole.. I cant go through life fight what God has for me.. I'm ready for him to elevate me and take me higher... I don't want to got to the club lets talk about how we can start some business ventures and help other people.. I know I will lose some more friend and guess what that's OK with me. I'm no longer living for people but for my divined purpose.

I'm tired of putting on the pretend face and tired of repeating the same test over and over again.. Sometimes we get in the way of our blessings.. I have hit rock button and there is no where but up to go.. Someone inbox me and was like how do you just put what your going through out there like that. Well I don't put everything out there, but I do share what God tells me to share if it can help someone else to let them know they are not alone.. You cannot heal yourself, you can spend time with God and learn to speak over yourself. But God has to heal you first... you talking about someone broken into pieces...I think for the longest I carried the weight of the world on my shoulders...

Friends of mines that know me would say I'm bi polar lol but they know my heart is huge.. I have lost some of my closes and dearest friends to some of silliest things. I still pray for them. I pray that God will mend their heart as he did mines allow them to move past what ever disagreement we had.. I've had a friend that married my x boy friend a friend that when she is going through it she shuts down completely. I have friends that I might not like how they do stuff. Yet I have learn through it all all these people have play a roll in my life good bad and indifferent.  I know I have not been the easiest person to deal with, and at times yes I can be selfish....  To those of you that are still in my life I just want to take the time to say I love you and thank you so much for being apart of my life. To the ones that's not I'm sorry for everything I did or said to you and I pray that God bless you with all your heart desires...Now some friends we may never speak again and Im ok with that because God didn't intend for everybody to come with me on my journey. Let them go. Extra baggage will slow you down. .You cannot heal yourself, you can spend time with God and learn to speak over yourself. But God has to heal you first...

If you're not saying anything... You're not creating anything. Words have creative power! Speak life!! Where there is God's will, there will ALWAYS be a way. Where there is no way, there must be something better. Trust God!! You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.Worry and fear will keep you up tossing and turning all night. Try FAITH it makes a mighty fine pillow. One of the secrets of a long & peaceful life, is to forgive everybody & everything before you go to bed. Talk to God, He'll help you.No one makes a lock without a key. That's why God won't give you problems without solutions. Dear Past.. Thank you for your lessons. Dear Future.. I'm ready. Dear God.. Thank you for another chance. Nobody is Perfect.." But you can't keep using that as an excuse to do wrong.Own Everything That Has Happened To You. God Will Make Something Beautiful Of It.

I Assure you.....

I assure you its more to me then a pretty face
Now tell me are you up for the race
You have to be consistent and persistent too
Other wise in my heart I wont have a place for you

See I did it the other way for oooooh so long
I require much more the bar is set in case you didn't know yes I'm grown
 I know longer want to do it all on my own..

With a smile on my face as bright as the morning sun
I'm ready to love again... my new life has just begun

I've step out of the old and into the new
I'm grateful for all I've been through.
Its taught me how to love again and be true
Come get me I'm ready for you boo

Submission I know you thought it was a tool that I lacked
Laughing you cant give everyone everything y make them prove they wanted more of you then  just getting you in the sack
Not just that but make sure their someone that will always have your  back

I said it before I'm going to say it again
I'm to old for a temporary fix
Get your grown man on I"m not impressed how good you can work your stick 
That's what impress those sideline chick

Talk to me about how we can become as one 
Making moves start business grind together now that will stimulate me and really make me cum
See I require more then Intimacy and you paying a few bill
 I'm grown woman at this point in my life I'm ready to settle down and that's Real
Copyrights©2012 KayundraSimpson
Real Talk What Others Are Afraid to say Volume 2 Coming 2013 get ready..

Raise the bar... Stop Settling..

YOu have to want more then just sex or being the boo thang where are your standards.....
Physical attraction has a lot of folks emotionally exhausted. Just because they look good to you, doesn't mean that they're good for you. Never run after someone who isn't fit to walk beside you. As men you shouldn't come for women you aren't ready to commit to, and you  shouldn't commit to women you can't support. What she's bringing to the table doesn't really matter if you aren't first bringing the table. It's relationship, not relationSHOP. You want someone who supports your needs, not someone who sponsors your habits. When you stop looking for love with your eyes, you find that your heart was never really into what you were entertaining. Sex appeal will get you great sex, but doesn't promise you a great mate. I require substance not a easy lay. That's my choice..Boasting about doing a good deed takes the good out of the deed. You give up your reward when you lobby for public praise. Think about how blessed you'll be when you can identify a liar before they open their mouth. You don't get this type of keenness partying. You can't see people/things for who or what they really are without spiritual discernment. You'd rather pray than party - That's not lame, that's wise. Too much partying will kill you, too much praying will bless you and others. You're not boring because you don't go out and do what everyone else is doing; you're different. People tend to believe settling down and leaving the party scene would make them boring. Thats a foolish mindset. Don't be a fool. You have to be willing to push your social life to the side to enhance your spiritual life. We make time for what we want. That in itself tells you how much people want to improve. How much time do they make for improvement? If being me isn't good enough for you, you don't need to be there. A woman who respects her body, and guards her thoughts is an absolute gem.If she respects herself enough not to give it up, you should have sense enough to hold her down.  If it's easy for him to get you in his bed, it'll be just as easy for him to put you out of his house. Im just saying you know  you can sleep with someone but what else do you have to offer come on now.. At some point in your life you have to say enough is enough and want more out of life then just SEX...Things that come easy are usually forgotten quickly. If he or she doesn't love you beyond your faults, they won't pray for your needs - You don't need em.

5 Tips For The Open Minded Woman/ 5 Tips For The Wise Man

1. If a man feels he isn't needed or wanted, he'll stop trying. Don't make him feeling like he's working for nothing

2. A wise woman knows the importance of speaking life into her man. If you love him: Believe in him, encourage him, & be his peace

3. You can't make him feel unnecessary, and then ask him for effort. It's all about give and take

4. Good men are out there and they're available. However, having a pessimistic attitude won't help you find them

5. Change your circle and change your surroundings. If your activities are limited, your options will be too

5 Tips For The Wise Man

1. You want the woman that challenges you. If you always go for the easy 1's, don't complain when you don't get the good 1's

2. If all she asks for is consistency, truth, & love, don't make her feel like she's asking for too much. Step up

3. If you know you can't be the man she needs, let her go. Don't get her hopes up just to let her down.

4. Don't let convenient, easily available women cause you to be impatient with a genuinely deserving woman's time

5. Don't give up easy. Don't be lazy. Don't expect to get out more than you put in.

Other woman listen up....

Let's be clear & real! A man isn't cheating with you because you are so good at being the other woman. He's cheating with you because you aren't good enough to be his woman. I think its crazy that women brag about being the "GO TO" woman when the man gets bored at home & then yall try to put down & laugh at a real woman for being 100 with her man. But you are the one who should feel DUMB. Because 

you are the sideline chick, yall are a SECRET! Learn what a real woman is & what she can do she is far from weak,She is there with him through the UPS & DOWNS, But knows her breaking point, She is his ONLY woman, Who knows how to carry the load for him & her both with out him even knowing it. She know how to speak to HIS SPIRIT & NOT JUST HIS LUSTS, She knows how to encourage him towards his DREAMS instead of pulling him to DESTRUCTION, She knows how To PRAY with him & not PLAY with him, She knows the value of his hard work & not just his dollar. He knows that he can throw a few dollars & a few material possessions your way & that's all you will ever expect. The other woman makes it easy for a man, but a real woman make it easy for herself by makin him EARN & not buy her & in the end she will have the last laugh. Because not only is she getting the $$$ but she also has his heart! If your the O.T.H.E.R. woman, IT STANDS FOR: AN OVER PLAYED TOY HE EVENTUALLY RELEASES. IF YOU KNOW YOUR MAN HAS ANOTHER WOMAN ON THE SIDE & YOU ALLOW IT...* YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF* ALL YALL CAN DO BETTER!!! (JUST MY OPINION) BE SOMEONE WIFE WITH BENEFITS & NOT JUST A SIDE LINER WITHOUT BENEFITS. #I'M JUST SAYIN KNOW YOUR WORTH..

Random Thoughts

You can’t always control who you lose but you can control who you hold on to, just make sure they’re worth it. Sometimes you just need to remove certain people from your life. If they don’t see your vision, they’ll compromise your mission. Great people can’t come into your life if you keep holding on to pointless people and allowing them to block the door. Stop letting people just “chill” and take up space in your life. Make sure their presence has a purpose. Beware of those who claim to care more when their actions show you that they could care less.

If you show me somebody you feel you can’t expect anything from, I’ll show you somebody you don’t need in your life. Don’t avoid having basic expectations. You should expect the people who claim to care about you to show it, & in more ways than one. When you care about something, you protect and cherish it; your “care” should make it better. If they aren't helping you dream bigger, inspiring you to work harder, or motivating you to do better, you don't need them. It’s simple math: if people aren't adding value to your life then they need to be subtracted.

We're all impressionable. If you want to get ahead make sure you start the process by putting yourself around the right influences. Some people will be around just to be around, don't let them. You need to be around people who have a sense of purpose & direction. Anytime you say "easier said than done" you're making an excuse for why you can't do what you know is necessary. If you’re trying to go places in life you can’t keep following the people who are content with just going anywhere. Letting go may be easier said then done, but just because it isn't easy doesn't mean it isn't necessary.

You like me

You like me

You like me but you actions don't show that

I have had enough no more taking you back

I'm tired of all those I'm sorrys I'm paying attentions to the facts

We have done this back and forth for a minute

I'm sorry I just don't have the time or energy to put back in it

I don't doubt that you don't love me 

But you can't meet me half way

I've had enough of the empty promise 

Its time for me to see brighter day

This shouldn't catch you by surprise

If you were really paying attention 

You would've seen  all the hurt and pain in my eyes

I've taking enough I'm done with all your lies

At this point its time to cut all ties 

Copyrights©2012 Kayundra Simpson

Girl Talk....

When a man truly loves you, he will show you with his actions & not his words. So why your sitting there crying, worrying and stressing or maybe being depressed. He's probably laying to another woman that he left you for. Not even caring how your feeling.. He is sleeping like a Newborn and your all over there can't sleep,  blowing his phone up text in ect. If this man truly cares for you, then he would have never left or cheated. So instead of doing all that extra and yes it do hurt been there and done it a time or two. Change your way of thinking and be thankful that God allowed this to happen before it was to late. Sometime in life. God allows us to go through certain things to prepare us for what is yet to come.. Ok you loved him but get over it.. Start living for you. Began to love you.. Fall so deep in love with God... I know your saying yeah I here all that,  but you don't want to be alone and by yourself.. Well with God your never alone.. So your next thing is your talking about the physical of having a companion. We all long for that but not settle and accept anything just to be with a Man... The healing starts with you., You have to make the choice what do I really want for my life.. Happiness starts with you.. You don't need a man to find true happiness. You should already have that when he enters your world.. So dry your eyes and find something else productive to do with yourself and your time... No matter how bad your situation may look, God has the ability to turn it around & work it out for the good. Just be patient & trust that he can do it.

Stop just settling for anything just to say you have a man.. If you don't make him work then you allow anything... Quality time is sooo valuable in a relationship it doesn't matter how busy someones schedule is, If he is important to you they will make time for you...NO LIES, NO EXCUSES, NO BROKEN PROMISES. Because quality time & affection means everything especially when you're trying to get to know someone...Because what you won't do, the next person will do. Stop just settling for a late night call a light night hit and run...No matter how good of a woman or man you are to your significant other. You'll NEVER be good enough...If he or she ain't ready.


Stop talking down on your relationship on social networking sites... Don't let other people know your home ain't happy. It only lets outsiders know they are welcome to come in...If you & your mate ever have a disagreement or problem at home... PRAY ABOUT IT & LEAVE IT IN GODS HANDS. 

Have a blessed day everyone be a blessing to someone else.. Ms.K.Simpson...

Stop entertaining everything...

Some battles just aren’t worth winning. Know what to ignore. Something’s just don’t deserve to be addressed. Life gets a lot easier when you realize you don’t have to attend every argument you’re invited to. Why waste time talking about it if you really don’t care about it? “Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks” - Matthew 12:34 be blessed everyone Ms.K.Simpson

Real Talk Moment Lets Go.....

How many times can you accept an apology for the same mistake, before you realize that "mistake" will keep happening. Sometimes it's easy to feel like you're the only one who's struggling, who's frustrated, or barely getting by, but you're not alone. Don't hang onto feelings like hurt, anger or pain. They still away your feelings for happiness. Don't let someone else control what you do in life. It's your decisions, your outcomes, your life. Yesterday was yesterday, focus on today. Stop letting the unimportant things matter to you. Some people will do their best to watch you be miserable, don't let them. Don't always look for happiness, create it. Every story has an ending. But in life, sometimes an ending is just a new beginning. The hardest decisions are often the right ones. It's better to let go with a smile, than to hold on with tears...

 Don't judge people until you truly know them. The truth might surprise you...You're not supposed to look back, you're supposed to keep looking forward. You never really stop loving someone, you just learn how to live without them..Sometimes you have to stop caring, to see if they will start..It's an amazing feeling when the person you have feelings for, finally opens up to you. Forget what hurt you, but never forget what it taught you. Once you stop chasing the wrong things, the right ones catch you.  Life is like an elevator. There are ups and downs, but in the end, you control which direction it goes. Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page. Be with someone who brings out the best in you. It's what you deserve. Don't spend your whole life waiting and hoping for that one person, just live and enjoy life, and life will find a way. It may be difficult right now, but in the end, we'll find a way.. Enjoy your day everyone feel free to share.. Ms.K.Simpson... Join my blog lets inspire each other...

Who Am I

Who Am I Who Am I: The one that was raped beaten and misused The one that felt know one was there so I asked myself why should I care about anything or anyone. The damaged had already been done. They told me I would never amount to anything. There goes all my hopes and dreams. Who Am I: The Liar Trafficker Drug Dealer and the Madam. Can you see why I don't know what happen. The money cars big houses and fancy clothes This has gotten so out of control. At the club everyday 3 shots of patron on the way. Headed to the back bar to make the deal which one of my ladies do you want to give you that thrill. I got in a life that I didn't know now I realize I only did it for show. Moving from state to state, now I find myself moving weight. Some told me you need to slow down before its to late. Damn wake up the next morning to Magistrate. Overwhelm at what the Judge said, so many thoughts went through my head. I looked at my Attorney and asked what should do. His reply was Ms.Simpson it's all on you. I closed my eyes and started to pray. Lord please have your way. Give me what you think is best I'm so tired of running and I need to rest. Who Am I: The one that was sentenced to jail. Stuck in a blue suit then put in a 8x12 jail cell. They called my name to make a call. I stared at the phone then I realized I had no one to call at all. Who Am I: the one the Devil had on a roll. Those were some of my sins that we're untold. He had me in the palm of his hand. I realized I had no more strength to stand. I got on my knees and I started to pray. Lord please take my life today. I'm tired of living this life I live, I give you all my pain and fears. I'm so tired of running day to day Father in Heaven please have your way. You carried me through the lowest of lows. Jesus tell me where you want me to go. I'm crying on blended knees Lord I just can't do this anymore..... Who Am I: The one that asked the Lord to come into my heart and soul, use me lord for your in control, my life has no more meaning, I have no more strength to go on, unless I have the Father, Holy Spirit and The Son.... Who Am I: The one that was lost but know I'm found, I'm so glad Jesus turned my life around... Who Am I: A Child Of God Copy written 2010 God Gave Me This Talent by: Kayundra Simpson If You dont have your copy of God Gave Me This Talent Your missing a treat... Www. Www.kayundrasimpson.com Coming Soon

Rejection

Rejection is Not Someone Wanting You Out of Their Life. Rejection Is Someone that God Wanted Out Of Your Future!! Resentment is letting someone live rent-free in your head. Forgiveness is handing that person an eviction notice. Forgiveness.... Is the Number One Pain Reliever! Give yourself permission to.... Be FREE!!! Forgiveness isn't 4 the other person, its 4 u. The Longer u hold onto the pain, & the hurt, the longer u hold urself back from being free. You CAN change, you CAN let go of things that are holding you back. Don't stress the "Could Haves." If it should have, it WOULD have ...God's got this... Trust Him!!!

4 Things You Can't Get Back

In life, there are 4 things you can't get back... The stone after the throw... The word after it's said... The action after it's done... And, the time after it has passed... So be careful of what you throw, of what you speak, of what you do, and of what you let pass by... You can never make the same mistake twice. . because the second time you make it, its not a mistake, its a choice If you want something you've never had in life then you have to do something you've never done before Strength is what keeps you holding on...Faith is what keeps us moving along, but Hope is what makes us alive when everything is going wrong.

God see's you

God sees the person you are capable of becoming. He's not focused on what you are today; He's focused on your possibilities and what you can become. To God, you are a diamond in the rough. You may need a lot of polishing. That's okay; we all do. But God will keep working on you and making you into the person He wants you to be.

What are you giving up for Lent

During Lent, many of the faithful commit to fasting or giving up certain types of luxury as a form of penitence. What, if anything, are you giving up for Lent?

What your looking for

What your looking for
 I hope you find what your looking for
 It's a new year I want and deserve so much more
 We've had our ups and downs I'm putting myself first turning my life around
Playing second is not my thing
I thought you knew I am a Queen
Call me selfish yes it's all about self It's not about you it's all about me
That's why I decided to walk away you see
I'm tired of being deceived gone on with those lies
I can't wipe another tear from my eyes
I'm about to live laugh and have some fun
There want be no hard feelings when I walk out the door
I hope you find what your looking for 2010©Kayundra Simpson

When your back is against the wall

When you back is against the wall

 When your back is against the wall we sometimes go back to what we know

 Devil you are a Liar that's not my life anymore

 I must be doing something right

 Satan is pulling out every trick in the book to try to make me lose sight

 I've come to far & giving up to much to lose this fight

 As tears swell up in my eyes

 If you didn't know yes there is much more to me then my lips and whats between my thighs

 I'm not ashamed of my past

 that's why I wrote a book I have nothing to hide

 I has hurting I needed to vent I couldn't hold it inside I called on some of my real and true friends

 At that time I needed them the most not one picked up on their end 

As Satan tried to get deeper in my head

 The tears started over flowing I know Satan wants me dead

 What Satan meant for evil God had other plans instead

 That's why I make sure I hit my knee's every night before I go to bed

 Being a Christan is not easy at all

 Jesus was the only perfect man we all have flaws 

2012©Kayundra Simpson,  All Rights Reserved 

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Just Me

 Just Me
 I know my worth others don't
Settling is something I can't do I just want
It took me a while to realize who I am
Before GOD came in my life I just didn't give a damn
About anything or anyone.....
That was before I got the Holy Spirit, The Father & The Son
What GOD has for me is for me
 I learned how to sit down and wait patiently
 For him to send me my King I'm not in a hurry do you know what I mean
I'm just expressing some of the things I want him to bring
I want a man to finish my sentence, know my thoughts
One that will accept me with all my Faults
I'm a virtual woman waiting on a God fearing Man
Not just any Man the one GOD has in his plan Settling I just want do
I want let the devil get the upper hand
On GOD'S words is where I stand
So I sit and wait
GOD'S an on time GOD he's never late
 I don't walk by sight I walk by faith
 Just Me 2011©Kayundra Simpson

I Don't Know How

I Don't Know How
 Love I don't know how to do
The last time I was in love my heart got broke in two
Can you teach me how to love again
Take your time I need my heart to mend
This will not be an easy task
I'm asking you to take your time, don't take me fast
I'm willing to let go of all the pain & hurt in my past
I want real love again the kind of love that will last
 I Don't Know How ©Kayundra Simpson 2012

Not Where I'm At

Not Where I'm At
 I don't think I have been fair
 At times I act like I don't care
 I have a problem trusting a man
Are you listening to these words I'm saying
 I want to like you I really do
 Right now it don't fit, I have some other things I'm trying to do
You're a good man I have to tell you that
 Relationship wise that's just not where I'm at
Something you should know about me, if I was at that point
 I'm no tolerance, up front and blunt
I'm spoiled I don't like to share
You have to many lady friends; you know what I'm not going to take it there
You like a lot of attention
 I'm a one mans woman did I mention
 That was the basics I hope you were listening
 Not Where I'm At ©Kayundra Simpson God Gave Me This Talent Www.godgavemethistalent.blogspot.com