Sometimes it will take being in her presence to know that she’s the ONE. It’s cool to have preferences and expectations, but don’t miss out on a godsend focusing on her race, hair length, size, etc. Make sure that what you WANT is in alignment with what you NEED complementing your life of purpose. Pray, discern, and then choose. It doesn't take a man MULTIPLE years to know if you’re the ONE. You deserve to be with someone who knows your WORTH, rather than someone who is either lost, not ready, or just has you in the mix with others in attempt to find the best fit for his life. You’re a jewel, rather than a competitor on Eliminate. Ladies, it really is okay to let a man lead you. It does not mean you are weak or unable to care for self it just means you are so comfortable in your own strength you can submit to a God fearing man and allow him to play his part in your life. So many times, we take on a superwoman mentality because of things that may have happened in the past (kids dads not being around, your own father not being there, just used to having to play both roles). If we submit to God, we will have no problem submitting to a God lead man because if he is following Him, we know we are going in the right direction. Don't be so "superwoman" and "I can do it by myself" you miss out on the man purposed for you.
Love complements you in the RIGHT season, with the RIGHT person, for the RIGHT reasons. Be prepared in advance. Are you really ready for love or just trying to fill a void? Be honest with yourself.God wants to turn your broken pieces into a restored masterpiece. Give him access to your "heart" on today.
Be vulnerable,open & completely honest w/ your mate. She's there To HELP, rather than HINDER. Pursue her RELENTLESSLY. Also remember, she's not "officially yours" until after I DO. Studying & learning your mate should be a lifetime class, rather than a 1 semester assignment. Communication is essential.. If you can't get along, it won't last long..If God ain't 1st in your life, NO other relationships outside of him will work. In order for love to survive & GROW, SELFISHNESS has to DIE..if he's into you, he will pursue you. Don't ASSUME anything! Quality time is a must. Anyone that u VALUE should be of PRIORITY in your life. A faithful man that leads & listens, will have a submissive wife that loves & honors.
Insecurity issues are residue left from the people who've done you wrong or the one's that relationships didn't work out right. Forgiving them not only frees you from holding people in bondage, but it also allows God access to heal your heart to love & be loved again. Be able to UPGRADE your woman SPIRITUALLY ,rather than DEGRADE her EMOTIONALLY. Be the love in advance that u want rendered to you in the future.
When was the last time you spent time w/ the one you love WITHOUT interacting on your FB, twitter, instagram, etc while in their presence. Sometimes we just need to leave the laptops closed, tablets powered off, and phones on the charger while giving our ALL into quality time w/ another. Never attempt to FORCE a person to love you. Love is given FREELY from a persons heart w/ pure motives. Settling for less than you deserve is only saying that I'd "temporarily" rather have someone than no one. IMPATIENCE & COMPROMISING will always give the WRONG people access.. Don't settle!
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