Saturday, January 12, 2013

Dating Requires Consistency Persistent or Become Nonexistent

I would love to be in a relationship but the way my feet are setup I don't chase "NO MAN"... be consistent and persistent or you will become nonexistent...I'm a young lady you have to date court and establish a friendship. All dating is, is interviewing someone over dinner, laughs, and good times. It's not sex...stop skipping the friendship going to the sexship.. We no we can sleep together what else are you offering..it has to be more then sex to get my attention.. If you’re important, they’ll make time. If you’re not, they’ll make excuses. Effort is a reflection of interest, if you have to ask for more, you’re ignoring the obvious. Consistency, loyalty, and honesty are so basic they should be automatic… You shouldn't have to ask for it…People are consistent with who they want to be consistent with. It’s as simple as that. If you’re important, they’ll make time. If you’re not, they’ll make excuses. Effort is a reflection of interest, if you have to ask for more, you’re ignoring the obvious. Consistency, loyalty, and honesty are so basic they should be automatic… You shouldn't have to ask for it…People are consistent with who they want to be consistent with. It’s as simple as that.


If you’re too hurt or scared to open up, then just be single. Why play the game? There are no winners. Don’t play with the next persons heart just because you’re selfish with yours. If you care, show it. Don’t make things harder than they need to be. Effectively communicating can save you a lot of time. Be understanding. Be patient. Be genuine.Powerful women only scare weak men. You'd be surprised what the little things can do for you.. Make her feel safe earn her respect before you ask for her loyalty. Her being comfortable with you if far more important then her being impressed with you. Make her laugh, here her out, take your time. A Little patience can go along way. If she's REAL she will reciprocate... Dating is NOT a relationship. Don't put that man in an instant relationship with you because he took you to Red Lobster. You're not going to know EVERYTHING about a person before you marry, but you should date long enough to SEE how do they act when angry etc..All dating is, is interviewing someone over dinner, laughs, and good times. It's not sex. Dating helps you evaluate how they best FIT into your life. Dating is not game playing. You know from the on set if it can progress into something serious or not. Don't be a user who manipulates. Dating and marriage planning don't go hand in hand. Put the BRIDES Today magazine down until he ASKS you to marry him. Just because they're not the one doesn't mean they can't be a good friend.If you need a conversation (we're human, we ALL do) demand that through your ACTIONS. YOU teach people how to treat you by how you respond. A man has NO incentive to stop doing what he's doing if he's getting what he wants. If you're tired of him texting, STOP responding. If he wants to hear from you, at that point he will call.

1 comment:

  1. If your man is pushing you away and acting distant

    Or if the guy you’re after isn’t giving you the time of day...

    Then it’s time to pull out all the stops.

    Because 99% of the time, there is only 1 thing you can say to a standoffish guy that will grab him by the heartstrings-

    And get his blood pumping at just the thought of you.

    Insert subject line here and link it to: <=========> Your ex won’t be able to resist?

    Once you say this to him, or even send this simple phrase in a text message...

    It will flip his world upside down and you will suddenly find him chasing you-

    And even begging to be with you.

    Here’s what I’m talking about: <=========> Is your man hiding something? He may need your help?

    Thanks again.








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