Your not ready for a Mate

You're not ready for a mate if you're not ready for the WORK. The WORK is in giving yourself to the cause of bettering someone else. It's not always gonna be easy. The WORK is in humbling yourself to the bigger picture, not allowing yourself to ignite the smaller battles. Defuse them with charity. The WORK is in learning how to see beyond other's faults to tend to their needs. We're so quick to run away from what we don't like, that we don't give ourselves time to learn how to love. The WORK is what a lot folks aren't prepared for in relationships. The pleasures are what they seek. God will never give you a finished product. He gives you someone you'll have to work with. Love her BEFORE she does anything to or for you.. Love her because God placed her in your life.