Friday, April 4, 2014

Real Talk Moment... (A Must Read)

Ladies are you tired of Men/boys sending you messages telling you they want you and they want to make love to you ect.. You know the ones thinking with the little head.. Well this is for them..

My thoughts on them....
 Let me just weed some of these MEN/BOYS out so that we don't waste each others time..If your looking for Open to the public p***y your at the wrong place its plenty of that out here.. I'm just not her. So keep it moving. I Only wish to deal with mature individuals! Therefore you Must be willing to work and put in...Everything is earn nothing is just given. ALL men/women have a motives! Make your intentions known and don't get mad when the other person make theirs
known.. If your not on the same page move around. Its about choices... When you play games that's when unnecessary occur... and the drama..STOP IT!!! Fellas a woman does what she wants it not always about you.. and if your lucky to get some its her choice not yours..

Say what you mean mean what you say.. .Your word is all you have. I cant stand a liar. If you are seeking a jump off ,cut buddy, boo thang, your a serial dater, you're a man but still have little boy ways. No you can't lick it, no you cant stick it.. Your still jumping from woman to woman, you're still thinking with the little head and not the right head, your selling dreams, dishonest ect.. you get the point. STOP..I am not what your seeking. I don't do casual things.. When you reach a certain point in your life. You know what you want, what you will deal with and what you will allow in your space...

Ok if your still reading here goes and your not one of the ones I called out above..
There is a HUGE difference in being picky and Having Standards...It’s 3 things I need: trust, loyalty, and consistency. If any one of those is hard for you, I’m not the one for you. We Cant Be In A Relationship If you have no desire to be my partner in business, love, and life..I don't do part time anything... in dealing with me you must be consistent & persistent or you will become non existent. Actions always prove why words mean nothing....That's the type of mindset you have to have. You don't have to explain to people why you're not into things that don't profit you anything..A good woman is cool, a great woman even better but a Queen can change your life.Respect my time. Match my effort. Always be honest. Stay consistent....Time tells all. If it's not really in their character, they won't remain consistent in doing it. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Relationships..... Respect, Love, Trust, Honesty, Loyalty, Support, Communication.

I would love to be in a relationship but the way my feet are setup I don't chase "NO MAN"... be consistent and persistent or you will become nonexistent...I'm a young lady you have to date court and establish a friendship. All dating is, is interviewing someone over dinner, laughs, and good times. It's not sex...stop skipping the friendship going to the sexship.. We know we can sleep together what else are you offering..it has to be more then sex to get my attention. The only three things a Man should want to change about his Woman are; Her last name, her address and her viewpoint on Men.....

I've gotten to a point in my life where everything I add to my life has to clearly be an addition! I look at life like math, I don't add anything that's going to subtract from me or anything I'm doing! I don't add stress, frustration, issues, complaints or anything that's not positive period! I look at things day by day too. If something was adding on Monday but it's subtracting on Thursday, it wont be a part of my life on Friday! Life is a blessing & God made me for a purpose, and nothing can come before my purpose or take away from this blessing period!

Nothing like knowing somebody cares enough to pay attention, they don’t always have to ask, they just know...Show me something I haven’t seen before. Teach me something new. The usual gets old fast..I need that spontaneous, exciting, ever growing type thing. That normal “we’re just kicking it” stuff isn't for me..If its not inspiring me to make changes for the better, break bad habits, or experience new things, then what’s the point? If its not about consistently doing whatever it takes to make the other smile or challenging me to be greater, I don’t need it. If its not about the simple things then I don’t want it.

Thursday, March 6, 2014

My Daughters



My Daughters


I have two beautiful daughters I have taught them as they get older to be nothing like me

I want them to follow their hearts, hopes and dreams
I want them to know they can do anything

I love my daughters more than life itself. 
Yes for them I will give my last breath

My daughters are my hero’s they continue to keep a smile on my face No matter what problem, pain or obstacles that comes our way


We stick together through thick and thin
I’m their mother first before I'm their friend Whether something is wrong or right

My daughters are always there to finish my fight
I taught them well this I know

I pray for them daily that’s for show
I’m proud and happy as you can see

My daughters are just as beautiful now as when they first were born.
Life lesson is a sure way they will learn

My daughters are my world
Thank you father for blessing me with my girls...
2010© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved 
www.kayundrasimpson.com
@MSKAYES

Silence Is Golden


Silence Is Golden

I don't think some of you get that point
If they're ignoring you you're someone they know longer want
They know longer want any dealings with you and have wrote you off closed that chapter and walked away
Their tired of talking and repeating them self the have nothing else to say

Sometimes something's are better not said
Think back to what happen replay those memories in your head

Read between the lines
Especially when their words and actions don't align
Stop wasting your time


You want closure then close the door
Stop allowing people to run in and out your life to hurt you more

You've already move on and let those wounds heal
Remember the devil has angels to they come to destroy kill and steal

Don't argue just be silent
Show them you don't have time for foolishness mess drama or violence
It's always best to move in silence

Everything that comes at you don't need a reply
If your through then walk away that's your good bye
Silence is golden that's your best response 
That's how you no your over it and really done..
2013© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved 
www.kayundrasimpson.com

@MSKAYES

People Say

People Say

People say
I'm angry but guess what 
I sure am not
Mess & foolishness I've dealt with a lot
So yeah you have to put in work 
If you want to hold the number one spot 

Bold up front and blunt
I know my worth as well as my wants

A challenge yes that's me
Take the time to get to know me then you will see
It starts with listening and communicating that's the key

Stimulate my mind 
Not waste my time
Get in my head 
Not try to get me in bed

If sex is all you can do
I'm not that one for you boo
We know we can do that
What else can you bring to the table I must ask

People say 
I'm to hard on men
They should give me a challenge then
Weak men make me strong
With me they want last long
I don't have a problem telling you to get the hell on
2013© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved 
@MSKAYES

Thursday, February 27, 2014

Consistency....

Sometimes consistency is all someone really wants. If you can't be consistent you will never be able to hold someone's attention long enough to build something with. How can you truly ask someone to take you serious if your actions lack consistency? No one will put trust and faith in you if you can't give them something consistent and real. Give someone consistency and it will be hard for them to ignore you. Your effort must match your actions and your actions must be consistent...

Getting ready for New Book.. Im Just Not Built To Break



Breaking News.... Coming this Holiday Season.... "I'm Just Not Built To Break". You can Pre Order Yours now. www.kayundrasimpson.com 25.00 including Shipping and handling. Just go to the book section from the home page

Snippet:Introducing I'm Just Not Built To Break..What I want can't be purchased.. I have worked for nothing, slept on floors, felt unappreciated and had no support, Been homeless, had not a penny to my name, tried to commit suicide, lost my mind, lost everything i owned, lost friends, faced my fears, swallowed my pride, gave my heart, tried & failed, followed my dreams.... This is just the watered down version of what I went/am going through for my DREAMS..I have done all this and I'm still not where I wanna be.. How bad do you want it.. Failure is not a options and thats why I keep grinding.. In order to get to it you have to go through it.. Always help someone you might be the only one that does.. I had to learn this in all areas of my life, you can't rush something you want to last forever.. There are levels to everything we do.. I'm happy with what I have while I'm working for what I want..Opportunity didn't knock on my Door so I had to create my own.. On a mission I believe in me even when it seems know one else does. My time is coming trust and believe it.. God has not over looked me... He has something and someone amazing in store for me.. I had to remind myself It's His Timing not mines..Introducing I'm Not Built To Break..

If I told you what was really going on you would think that I had a right to break, but because of who's in control of what's going on I have a right to stand. I Love you God.....I know you therefore everything will be ok.... Lord I trust you for this too shall pass... for the devil to be coming at me this tough.... Tells me he has gotten just a glimpse of what’s to come.. I will take my eyes off of my circumstance and put them back on you... Lord I trust you, you are my everything... I'm tired of running I surrender all with every breath in my body.. Satan you’re a liar you will not win.. I bind the thoughts of thinking I'm alone, I have no friends, Fear, Depression and anything else that is not of GOD...

My heart is heavy but I will not fret.. What I’m going to do is trust you...I can’t change what happened yesterday.....it's already done............ Looking forward to tomorrow....I know you have this thing all worked out... Preparing myself for the transition....... Frustration is always a sign of growth.......Lord I trust you.... Even though I can't see you..........

Lord I know you have a calling on my life...In trying to run from your calling I've began to run into the space of people who are not aligned with your assignment.........there is an incredible cost for ignoring the voice of God... I'm far from perfect and if no one else does I believe in me.. I love me and I'm learning that it doesn't matter if you do or not!!!!!! I ROCK..!!!!!! So on that note get ready for my NEW BOOK COMING THIS HOLIDAY SEASON.. 

IM JUST NOT BUILT TO BREAK #2014

Friday, February 21, 2014

This IS Only A Test



This is only a test


Remember for your life God wants the best and nothing less
The devil is coming at you in every direction
God knows best you need this lesson
You can’t go to the next level if you’re still stressing

You bills are due money is gone
You're about to be on the streets with no place to call home
You’re Wondering what you did wrong

When God is trying to get your attention
And you fail to listen
He will remove everything and everyone
He wants you to get through this and not have to do a rerun
You've done all you know how to do
Stand still listen God's got you

When you can accept the worst in your situation
Face it head on you can overcome the temptation
The devil don't play far he has a lot of patience

You feeling lonely and all alone
Wondering where has all you friends gone
He has you by yourself for a reason
Trust him this is just preparation season

Right now nothing seems unfair
You want to call it quits DON'T you dare
God woke you up this morning he's not through with you yet
There's your reason to go on right there

You've lost you drive an determination
Don't you know that is no one but SATAN
He comes to Kill steal and destroy that's his fixation

Speak to that problem and tell it to move
Don't you know you have the power to
Instead of focusing on what’s not
Praise GOD in the mist of your storm he is all you got
Stop worrying start praying
I’m just saying

So you think you’re going through a lot
Jesus went through way more than what you got going on you must have forgot
Face it head on so then can you move on
Jesus is with you every step of the way Trust him he want steer you wrong

You've put your trust in everyone else
That didn't work try GOD for yourself
Test aren't meant to break you
They are meant to form, shape and make you

This is only a test
So ask yourself do you want to keep going through mess
Or do you want to be bless and past this test


You’re not average so you don't get average problems
Just remember God is the problem solver trust him


God already know the ending to your story
Remember in the mist of your storm give him all the praise and glory
©2014 Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved