GOING THROUGH AND OVER COMING

Going Through and Over Coming

Stop tripping over what people say about you while you're going through... It's just cheap shots from within their own messed up life... It's amazing how those not living according to God's standards will tell you how to do things right... Really? It truly isn't over until God says it's over.

If you're going through hell.. Keep going! Your breakthrough is coming. Don't give up, see the lesson and blessing in it. It's almost over. Speak affirmation over your life today. Whatever it is that your going through, you're coming out of it, believe that. God knows how much we can bare. so whatever your going through, know that your capable of over coming the situation. Over the last two years I think I have been going through the hardest time of my life. I know a blessing is coming soon. It's not about what you're going through but how you're coming out of it. Your struggles are over, you just have to walk in it and believe it.

Going through struggle is another sign that GOD loves you, because over coming that struggle makes you humble. You made it through that thing that everyone thought was going to be your DEMISE! Don't give up now your testimony will be GREAT! If you're going through it GOD built you for it. Get ready to come out. You have come to far because deep inside you knew you couldn't quit. 

Just when you think you are going through a lot it's always somebody who has it worst, makes you appreciate the little things. Whatever you're going through right now, remember that it's temporary. You have an opportunity to turn this test into your testimony. Your circumstance may be the help someone else needs not to give up. Go through it and tell your story... Their is always a blessing in every lesson. 

You can't solve a problem until you acknowledge the that you have one and accept responsibility  for solving it. Failure is an event not a person. Yesterday ended last night. Time to keep moving. You can't give up just because you hit a bump in the road. Think of all the roads that were carved out and all the bumps that were moved in order for the road to be paved. if the men that were digging new roads decided to up and quit just because they kept hitting bumps we would never have connected to all the different places we take for granted when visiting.  There is no blessing without the battle... but know this the battle is not yours 

Don't complain....Your not expected to be perfect, but your are expected to keep trying. If you fall short (and you will) try again. Jesus fell carrying his own cross to his own death. He didn't complain. He got back up again and kept going

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My Fundraiser....

My mission is to give back to my community by providing help others less fortunate. When you receive you blessings the truth is that they are not just for you. You should want to bless someone who may be going through their own personal storm.  My life may be a representation a Tsunami but I believe my deliverance in healing will come through my ministry that God had given me by helping others. How can I help you may ask? I want to help that mother that has fallen on hard times when she has rent due and still needs to provide food for their child(ren).  What about that teenager that feels she has no one who will sit and listen to her as she tries to figure out how she can attend college but have no money? What about that man that has been released from jail: and have no information on a job that will not look at his felony conviction but will give him a chance? But the one that touches a lot of people - the woman that has or is being abused physically, emotionally and mentally. I want to be a voice for the oppressed. I want to be that person that you can come to and know you don't have to face it alone. At times the people that are the closest to us are struggling and we don't even know. I want to be the person you can call me, walk into my office or see me on the streets and I will be able to assist you in getting whatever help it is that may be needed at that time.

I have my goals in this year to be able to assist 2 families to get school supplies and school uniforms. Then when the holidays come I would like to be able to bless at least 5 families for Christmas and Thanksgiving. God has allowed me to come through so many things in my life that I can honestly say that I know what it is to be homeless and lost without a cause. But God only allowed things that would in the end to be the building blocks of my ministry. I want to take the time now to thank each of you that have played a role in this dream and who have supported my endeavors or who will play the role that is for you.

The website that you may begin to contribute is http://www.gofundme.com/kayundrasimpson. Contributes may be as little $5 and go up from there.

Again THANK YOU

Sincerely,

Ms. Kayundra Simpson

Real Talk Moment... (A Must Read)

Ladies are you tired of Men/boys sending you messages telling you they want you and they want to make love to you ect.. You know the ones thinking with the little head.. Well this is for them..

My thoughts on them....
 Let me just weed some of these MEN/BOYS out so that we don't waste each others time..If your looking for Open to the public p***y your at the wrong place its plenty of that out here.. I'm just not her. So keep it moving. I Only wish to deal with mature individuals! Therefore you Must be willing to work and put in...Everything is earn nothing is just given. ALL men/women have a motives! Make your intentions known and don't get mad when the other person make theirs

known.. If your not on the same page move around. Its about choices... When you play games that's when unnecessary occur... and the drama..STOP IT!!! Fellas a woman does what she wants it not always about you.. and if your lucky to get some its her choice not yours..

Say what you mean mean what you say.. .Your word is all you have. I cant stand a liar. If you are seeking a jump off ,cut buddy, boo thang, your a serial dater, you're a man but still have little boy ways. No you can't lick it, no you cant stick it.. Your still jumping from woman to woman, you're still thinking with the little head and not the right head, your selling dreams, dishonest ect.. you get the point. STOP..I am not what your seeking. I don't do casual things.. When you reach a certain point in your life. You know what you want, what you will deal with and what you will allow in your space...

Ok if your still reading here goes and your not one of the ones I called out above..
There is a HUGE difference in being picky and Having Standards...It’s 3 things I need: trust, loyalty, and consistency. If any one of those is hard for you, I’m not the one for you. We Cant Be In A Relationship If you have no desire to be my partner in business, love, and life..I don't do part time anything... in dealing with me you must be consistent & persistent or you will become non existent. Actions always prove why words mean nothing....That's the type of mindset you have to have. You don't have to explain to people why you're not into things that don't profit you anything..A good woman is cool, a great woman even better but a Queen can change your life.Respect my time. Match my effort. Always be honest. Stay consistent....Time tells all. If it's not really in their character, they won't remain consistent in doing it. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Relationships..... Respect, Love, Trust, Honesty, Loyalty, Support, Communication.

I would love to be in a relationship but the way my feet are setup I don't chase "NO MAN"... be consistent and persistent or you will become nonexistent...I'm a young lady you have to date court and establish a friendship. All dating is, is interviewing someone over dinner, laughs, and good times. It's not sex...stop skipping the friendship going to the sexship.. We know we can sleep together what else are you offering..it has to be more then sex to get my attention. The only three things a Man should want to change about his Woman are; Her last name, her address and her viewpoint on Men.....

I've gotten to a point in my life where everything I add to my life has to clearly be an addition! I look at life like math, I don't add anything that's going to subtract from me or anything I'm doing! I don't add stress, frustration, issues, complaints or anything that's not positive period! I look at things day by day too. If something was adding on Monday but it's subtracting on Thursday, it wont be a part of my life on Friday! Life is a blessing & God made me for a purpose, and nothing can come before my purpose or take away from this blessing period!

Nothing like knowing somebody cares enough to pay attention, they don’t always have to ask, they just know...Show me something I haven’t seen before. Teach me something new. The usual gets old fast..I need that spontaneous, exciting, ever growing type thing. That normal “we’re just kicking it” stuff isn't for me..If its not inspiring me to make changes for the better, break bad habits, or experience new things, then what’s the point? If its not about consistently doing whatever it takes to make the other smile or challenging me to be greater, I don’t need it. If its not about the simple things then I don’t want it.

My Daughters

My Daughters

I have two beautiful daughters I have taught them as they get older to be nothing like me

I want them to follow their hearts, hopes and dreams

I want them to know they can do anything

I love my daughters more than life itself. 

Yes for them I will give my last breath

My daughters are my hero’s they continue to keep a smile on my face No matter what problem, pain or obstacles that comes our way

We stick together through thick and thin

I’m their mother first before I'm their friend Whether something is wrong or right

My daughters are always there to finish my fight

I taught them well this I know

I pray for them daily that’s for show

I’m proud and happy as you can see

My daughters are just as beautiful now as when they first were born.

Life lesson is a sure way they will learn

My daughters are my world

Thank you father for blessing me with my girls...

2010© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved 

www.kayundrasimpson.com

@MSKAYES

Silence Is Golden

Silence Is Golden

I don't think some of you get that point

If they're ignoring you you're someone they know longer want

They know longer want any dealings with you and have wrote you off closed that chapter and walked away

Their tired of talking and repeating them self the have nothing else to say

Sometimes something's are better not said

Think back to what happen replay those memories in your head

Read between the lines

Especially when their words and actions don't align

Stop wasting your time

You want closure then close the door

Stop allowing people to run in and out your life to hurt you more

You've already move on and let those wounds heal

Remember the devil has angels to they come to destroy kill and steal

Don't argue just be silent

Show them you don't have time for foolishness mess drama or violence

It's always best to move in silence

Everything that comes at you don't need a reply

If your through then walk away that's your good bye

Silence is golden that's your best response 

That's how you no your over it and really done..

2013© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved 

www.kayundrasimpson.com

@MSKAYES

People Say

People Say

People say

I'm angry but guess what 

I sure am not

Mess & foolishness I've dealt with a lot

So yeah you have to put in work 

If you want to hold the number one spot 

Bold up front and blunt

I know my worth as well as my wants

A challenge yes that's me

Take the time to get to know me then you will see

It starts with listening and communicating that's the key

Stimulate my mind 

Not waste my time

Get in my head 

Not try to get me in bed

If sex is all you can do

I'm not that one for you boo

We know we can do that

What else can you bring to the table I must ask

People say 

I'm to hard on men

They should give me a challenge then

Weak men make me strong

With me they want last long

I don't have a problem telling you to get the hell on

2013© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved 

www.kayundrasimpson.com

@MSKAYES

Consistency....

Sometimes consistency is all someone really wants. If you can't be consistent you will never be able to hold someone's attention long enough to build something with. How can you truly ask someone to take you serious if your actions lack consistency? No one will put trust and faith in you if you can't give them something consistent and real. Give someone consistency and it will be hard for them to ignore you. Your effort must match your actions and your actions must be consistent...