If your trying to be the man in her life and help her succeed There are 3 vital questions you need to be asking her..
1. What can I do to help you?
2. How can I make your life easier?
3. How can I be a better spouse?
If your not dating for a purpose then why are you dating? At some point in your life you got to want more out of life then stick and move..
She would love to be in a relationship but the way her feet are setup SHE don't chase "NO MAN and right now She is getting herself back together. So if one is interested in her they will respect it and assist in the transformation not push or rush her into nothing. One has to be consistent and persistent or you will become nonexistent...She's a young lady you have to date court and establish a friendship. All dating is, is interviewing someone over dinner, laughs, and good times. It's not sex...stop skipping the friendship going to the sexship.. We no we can sleep together what else are you offering..it has to be more then sex to get her attention. The only three things a Man should want to change about his Woman are; Her last name, her address and her viewpoint on Men.
She's gotten to a point in my life where everything she add to her life has to clearly be an addition! She looks at life like math, She don't add anything that's going to subtract from her or anything she's doing! She don't add stress, frustration, issues, complaints or anything that's not positive period! She looks at things day by day too. If something was adding on Monday but it's subtracting on Thursday, it wont be a part of her life on Friday! Life is a blessing & God made her for a purpose, and nothing can come before her purpose or take away from this blessing period! If it don't make her happy, better, money, benefit her or my life she ain't doing it..
Offer her something she cannot FIND within herself....She know what She can BRING to the TABLE....MATCH HER HUSTLE! Have more to offer than whats between your legs... She needs that knowledge in your head to help you both get some more bread..She's Focus, hard working and smart enough not to settle. She need someone who can appreciate that and match her hustle. Match her effort, respect her hustle support her ambition, uplift her spirit and value her loyalty...You have to add value to her life and she to yours. Its team work
He asked what's her name. Her response was Help..She told him not to mix it up with taking care of... It's HELP...
Nothing like knowing somebody cares enough to pay attention, they don’t always have to ask, they just know...Show her something she haven’t seen before. Teach her something new. The usual gets old fast..she needs that spontaneous, exciting, ever growing type thing. That normal “we’re just kicking it” stuff isn't for her..If its not inspiring her to make changes for the better, break bad habits, or experience new things, then what’s the point? If it's not about consistently doing whatever it takes to make the other smile or challenging her to be greater, she don’t need it. If its not about the simple things then she don’t want it. Her plate is FULL and if your not willing to help her remove whats on here plate... why are you here...There is no I in team.. If your ready to build you already know all this...
A woman of substance won't come cheap and she won't come easy. If you want the best, be prepared to invest. A Mans Money Will Never Excite An Independent Woman..There is a HUGE difference in being picky and Having Standards...It’s 3 things she needs: trust, loyalty, and consistency. If any one of those is hard for you, You're not going to last. She will tell you...We Cant Be In A Relationship If you have no desire to be her partner in business, love, and life..A real woman don't do part time anything... in dealing with her you must be consistent & persistent or you will become non existent. Actions always prove why words mean nothing....That's the type of mindset you have to have. You don't have to explain to people why you're not into things that don't profit or benefit you..A good woman is cool, a great woman even better but a Queen can change your life. Respect her time. Match her effort. Always be honest. Stay consistent....Time tells all. If it's not really in their character, they won't remain consistent in doing it. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Relationships..... Respect, Love, Trust, Honesty, Loyalty, Support, Communication
In dealing with mature individuals! You Must be willing to work and put in...Everything is earn nothing is just given. ALL men/women have a motives! Make your intentions known and don't get mad when the other person make theirs known.. If your not on the same page move around. Its about choices...Everyone wants something..Don't ask them for theirs if you don't want them to ask you for yours. If your not on the same page move around. Its about choices... When you play games that's when unnecessary occur...STOP IT!!! Fellas a woman does what she wants it not always about you.. and if your lucky to get some its her choice not yours.. Just remember if she went in and you hadn't put in that will be the first and last time...If you want to keep going in then be willing to invest and put in....Once you stop she will stop..Real mean provide profess and protect... Remember this boys buy you things... Real men invest and build... Life is about transactions... Say what you mean mean what you say.. .Your word is all you have. No one can stand a liar
If you are seeking a jump off ,cut buddy, boo thang, your a serial dater, you're a man but still have little boy ways. Your still jumping from woman to woman, you're still thinking with the little head and not the right head, your selling dreams, dishonest ect.. you get the point. Make you intentions known stop playing with people feelings and games nine times out of time if
this is you your not ready for a relationship you just want a sexship..Ladies beware and make your intentions known to what you want in a relationship and from the person your dealing with....
Don't!!! Expect a SEAT if you don't bring absolutely NOTHING to the TABLE If You Date Know that your time, energy, effort, and money is an investment, not a gift. Being with a woman will always cost you, either in time, energy, money, or all three. Date when you can afford to....Buying her dinner doesn't entitle you to anything except a thank you
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