Raise the bar... Stop Settling..

YOu have to want more then just sex or being the boo thang where are your standards.....
Physical attraction has a lot of folks emotionally exhausted. Just because they look good to you, doesn't mean that they're good for you. Never run after someone who isn't fit to walk beside you. As men you shouldn't come for women you aren't ready to commit to, and you  shouldn't commit to women you can't support. What she's bringing to the table doesn't really matter if you aren't first bringing the table. It's relationship, not relationSHOP. You want someone who supports your needs, not someone who sponsors your habits. When you stop looking for love with your eyes, you find that your heart was never really into what you were entertaining. Sex appeal will get you great sex, but doesn't promise you a great mate. I require substance not a easy lay. That's my choice..Boasting about doing a good deed takes the good out of the deed. You give up your reward when you lobby for public praise. Think about how blessed you'll be when you can identify a liar before they open their mouth. You don't get this type of keenness partying. You can't see people/things for who or what they really are without spiritual discernment. You'd rather pray than party - That's not lame, that's wise. Too much partying will kill you, too much praying will bless you and others. You're not boring because you don't go out and do what everyone else is doing; you're different. People tend to believe settling down and leaving the party scene would make them boring. Thats a foolish mindset. Don't be a fool. You have to be willing to push your social life to the side to enhance your spiritual life. We make time for what we want. That in itself tells you how much people want to improve. How much time do they make for improvement? If being me isn't good enough for you, you don't need to be there. A woman who respects her body, and guards her thoughts is an absolute gem.If she respects herself enough not to give it up, you should have sense enough to hold her down.  If it's easy for him to get you in his bed, it'll be just as easy for him to put you out of his house. Im just saying you know  you can sleep with someone but what else do you have to offer come on now.. At some point in your life you have to say enough is enough and want more out of life then just SEX...Things that come easy are usually forgotten quickly. If he or she doesn't love you beyond your faults, they won't pray for your needs - You don't need em.