Girl Talk....

When a man truly loves you, he will show you with his actions & not his words. So why your sitting there crying, worrying and stressing or maybe being depressed. He's probably laying to another woman that he left you for. Not even caring how your feeling.. He is sleeping like a Newborn and your all over there can't sleep,  blowing his phone up text in ect. If this man truly cares for you, then he would have never left or cheated. So instead of doing all that extra and yes it do hurt been there and done it a time or two. Change your way of thinking and be thankful that God allowed this to happen before it was to late. Sometime in life. God allows us to go through certain things to prepare us for what is yet to come.. Ok you loved him but get over it.. Start living for you. Began to love you.. Fall so deep in love with God... I know your saying yeah I here all that,  but you don't want to be alone and by yourself.. Well with God your never alone.. So your next thing is your talking about the physical of having a companion. We all long for that but not settle and accept anything just to be with a Man... The healing starts with you., You have to make the choice what do I really want for my life.. Happiness starts with you.. You don't need a man to find true happiness. You should already have that when he enters your world.. So dry your eyes and find something else productive to do with yourself and your time... No matter how bad your situation may look, God has the ability to turn it around & work it out for the good. Just be patient & trust that he can do it.

Stop just settling for anything just to say you have a man.. If you don't make him work then you allow anything... Quality time is sooo valuable in a relationship it doesn't matter how busy someones schedule is, If he is important to you they will make time for you...NO LIES, NO EXCUSES, NO BROKEN PROMISES. Because quality time & affection means everything especially when you're trying to get to know someone...Because what you won't do, the next person will do. Stop just settling for a late night call a light night hit and run...No matter how good of a woman or man you are to your significant other. You'll NEVER be good enough...If he or she ain't ready.


Stop talking down on your relationship on social networking sites... Don't let other people know your home ain't happy. It only lets outsiders know they are welcome to come in...If you & your mate ever have a disagreement or problem at home... PRAY ABOUT IT & LEAVE IT IN GODS HANDS. 

Have a blessed day everyone be a blessing to someone else.. Ms.K.Simpson...