Mixed Signals

Never give off mixed signals to a woman. Either you're in to her, you're not or just wanting to get to know more about her. MOST women are not looking for quick love, just making sure that they're not being led on or just wasting time. When you find that “one stop shop” in a woman (that fears the lord, unconditional lover, submissive & brings out Gods best in you, you better put a ring on it & love her in covenant for the rest of your life. Men…. No matter if you find your PRECIOUS JEWEL at surface level gleaming, or stuck in the rummage of hurt & pain, it’s your job to aide in helping her to restore her PRICELESS worth to be the queen & help meet God has called her to be. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE...It'll Be A Sad Thing To Have Someone Like or Even Fall In Love With The Character You're Pretending To Be Rather Than The Person You Really Are. Just Be Yourself. If They Don't Want YOU for YOU then go be with someone who does! If you have to mute them on twitter, give them partial access to your Facebook & Google + page or assign distinct apps to monitor their calls or route them to voice mail, you probably shouldn't be dealing with them at all. Stop giving people PARTIAL access that shouldn't be having access at ALL. 

You asked me to be your lady

You asked me to be your lady

You asked me to be your lady

I’m not in a rush we are still learning each other daily

I’m not interested in skipping the friendship

To move on to the relationship

So you can get the sexship

See I’ve been there and done that

At this point in my life that’s just not where I’m at

You have to put in the work if this is where you want to be

Not just buy me things an try to sex me

 I got rid of my sugar daddies a long time a go

I’m sorry that’s just not how I flow

You have to put in the work

Otherwise I assure you your feeling will get hurt.

It’s more to me than my lips

If you’re not my MAN you can’t experience how I move my hips

I’m more than what is between my thighs

I know my worth and yes I have become very wise

I’ve been doing this thing on my own for a very long time

At this point in my life

What I require is establishing a friendship dating courting but most of all stimulating my mind

Don’t crowd my space

But yeah you must keep a smile on my face

Moving too fast will cause you to lose this race

I’m a strong independent woman that can hold her own

Not to mention yes I’m grown

I’m pretty set in my ways.

So yes it’s going to take a very patient man to deal with me as well as the good and bad days

The hardest part of a new relationship is the beginning

If you’re not willing to communicate and put in the work it will quickly come to an ending

2013© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved

My Smile

My Smile

You look at my pictures and see a smile upon my face

If you really knew my story you would hug me with a warm embrace

I've been through so many ups and downs

It’s a wonder why I carry a smile and not a frown

My heart is heavy in so many ways

I know this is only a test, there will be brighter days

It seems I'm all alone and no one is there

Going through all this mess just don't seem fair

The Smile on my face covers the pain I have inside

I learned to humble myself, and not have so much pride

From being abused, misused, homeless and more

I Smile because I no God has so much more in store

I'm OK with telling you what I've been through

Maybe my story can help you too

If you're going through it, know you're not alone

Sometimes God takes us through it to make us strong.....
2010© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved

You're A Woman

You're A Woman

You're a woman that can hold her own

You've been through a lot which has made you strong

You’re a woman that won't give up without a fight

I must say that's one of the things I like

You’re a woman that keeps it all together

You intimidate people therefore the don't know how to get on your level

You're a woman that's God Fearing and keeps God First

People only have something to say about you when you’re at your worst

You're a woman that has changed her life around

They still throw your past in your face to try to bring you down

You're a woman that's sacrifice and gave up so much

You stood on your own and didn't need a crutch

You're a woman that has a story to tell

Your test and trials have made you excel

Your work doesn't go unnoticed

I admire that even when you’re going through it you keep Focus..

2010© Kayundra Simpson, All Rights Reserved

Speak up

People have their reasons for not wanting to be in your life. Respect that and let them go about their business. Weak minded men prey on weak minded women because a strong man knows that he needs a strong woman in his life. A messy woman isn't a woman at all. Especially one that purposely cause drama and stirs up mess. Sometimes the best way to keep peace is by keeping your thoughts to yourself. Everyone can't handle what's on your mind at the time. It's sad when you're  the problem and you don't know you're the problem. What you fail to address now will show up at your address and address you later. I ain't who I used to be because if I was, a lot of people would have been cussed out. THANK GOD I've changed. If there's a disagreement, don't wait a few days and call like there never was a problem. U can't leave the past alone until u deal with it. One way to spot the enemy at work is when the people who once supported you now reject you. It happened to Jesus, so don't be discouraged.

Love doesn't come with a manual that's why you have to be in love to understand it. It takes no time to fall in love but it take years to know...The moment you realize u can't hide from Love... It will find u.......Dear Lord help me to recognize it when I'm found........ Thankful He's out there..... I just know he is....... So I'll just patiently wait...... While I make sure I'm able to be found. Sex sells, but I don't need a man to buy me, I want a man to "invest" in ME. I know my Worth...There's a difference between a man who spends on you and a man who invests in you ... figure it out.. Let her be strong where she's strong & you be strong where she's weak. It's the balance of a relationship. Being a man doesn't make you a leader. When your words match your effort + results, she'll trust you.

In terms of respect, don't demand what you don't offer. Not all women are going to play wives without being wives - those are usually the good ones. Friendship 1st. Relationship 2nd. Get your order right.

A man/woman who is single has never cheated - Make sure you're even in a relationship before you go tossing accusations. Too many single people assume they're in a relationship - it's like working a job they weren't hired for expecting a check.  Ask your self do you want a man who doesn't desire you enough to go after you. Simple If you set high standards for education & career why lower them for a date? I have to use the same intellect in my daily life as my dating life. You can't be eager for love but afraid of commitment - pick one. Just because you "vibe" doesn't mean he's heaven sent - you better consult with God before making any decisions. This isn't 5th grade - a lady doesn't have to wait around for a grown man to make up his mind..A grown adult man who likes you will pursue you - it's as plain and simple as that.Your relationship should make you proud. You should be honored to be in it. Anything else simply ain't worth it. Never be afraid to leave someone whose happiness depends on you ... you're not responsible for it. Follow your soul & have no regrets

If you haven't discussed intentions prior to intimacy, good luck.The only way to know what someone is thinking is to have a conversation about it ... with them. Some relationships have a "Use By This Date" warning, while others have a lifetime shelf life - learn the difference. For some, it wasn't a dinner date - she was just hungry. Unless you've discussed a relationship ... there is no relationship. When they say they don't know what they want, they don't want you - Hopefully you kept the receipt to return the dream you've been sold. Quit expecting what hasn't been discussed. "I got your back" "I believe in you" "Im proud of you" If you dont hear this in your relationship, you might be in the wrong 1.

Casual dating comes with no contract - state your intentions as soon as they become your intentions. Save yourself the embarrassment ... an uninterested lady isn't playing hard to get - she's just uninterested. Quit committing w/o a commitment conversation. If you haven't discussed a relationship, you're in 1 with yourself. Enjoy. A good woman multiplies what's given to her, so don't be afraid to give her your heart - she knows what to do with it. A woman who knows her worth is damn powerful point blank period. Figure it out. A relationship without a friendship is a waste of everyone's time. Sometimes the best way to show your value is by leaving. They don't appreciate what they have till it's gone ... get going. Don't confuse "Gold-digger" with a smart woman who expects to live well & have her needs met if she's offering the same thing.

MESSAGE FOR THE SINGLE LADIES AND GENTS

MESSAGE FOR THE SINGLE LADIES

AND GENTS


A Very Touching Story....

A poor boy was in love with a rich

man's daughter….One day the boy
proposed to her and the girl
said…”Hey! Listen, your monthly
salary is my daily hand
expenses..How can I be involved with
you..?

How could you have thought of that?
I can never love you, so forget about
me and get engaged to someone else
at your level”

But somehow the boy could not
forget her so easily…..Some time 10
years later they stumbled into each
other in a shopping mall.
The lady again said….,”Hey.. ! You!
How are you? Now I’m married and
do you know how much my husband’s
salary is..? $15,700 per month! Can
you beat that? And he is also very
smart”

The guy’s eyes got wet with tears on
hearing those words from the same
lady….
A few seconds later, her husband
came around but before the lady
could say a word her husband seeing
the guy, said……
“Sir you’re here and you’ve met my
wife..” Then he said to his wife,”This
is my boss, I’m also one of those
working on his $100 million project!
And do you know a fact my dear? My
boss loved a lady but he couldn’t win
her heart….That’s why he has
remained unmarried since.
How lucky would that lady have been,
if she had married this my boss now?
These days, who would love someone
that much?"

He said all these to his wife.
The lady looked in total shock but
couldn’t utter a word….
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Life is so short and it’s just like a
mirror.
You can only see as much as it
reflects. So don’t be too arrogant or
proud by looking down on others
because of their current situations.
Things get changed with time just
like the weather..! Don’t under
estimate anyone because everyone
has a great future!
Where you have been rejected before,
you will be celebrated soon in Jesus
name.

Shout a big AMEN if U're A believer
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When you know your worth there is no amount of money that will make you discount it...

Some men are sent to test you, challenge you, grow you, shape you; NOT every man is for YOU! The longer you SHOW him standards; the longer he'll respect those standards. Every man who asks for your hand in marriage doesn't deserve it.... Seats Please.....You're a nice young lady but you change to get him tattoo, drink, smoke, try new drugs and cuss. That's not attractive to him! Men don't like women who downgrade who they are; in order, to WIN them. Men love women who are strong and has their OWN mind! You have to have the attitude that only ME and GOD are in control of my life and what WE SAY GO! PERIOD! "DO NOT" miss out on your husband because you moved to fast or didn't have self control. You call the shots! If you do this you will have created a list of men that you have given yourself away to but NOT married to! You will face many test while dating, after every date just because he purchased you a meal doesn't mean sleep with him! No MAN" is perfect believers or unbelievers, however; you MUST pick the RIGHT battles for GOD promise to your life. God is faithful, he loves you and he's committed to pleasing you! God will never send you a person that doesn't show his reflection! Look within an see the QUEEN God created. Treat yourself good always and never accept someone in your life who doesn't do the same! When you know your worth there is no amount of money that will make you discount it....